Isn't it true that sexual relations are better when had in the way God intended?

Question

One man. One women. That God has chosen for you.

So many women today seek fulfillment in squandering their purity and innocense, but in the end they just feel wasted and used. Even Christian women do this, trying to justify their actions with the Bible.

God has created a perfect plan for us and it is only when we embrace his will that we will be truely happy.

Do you agree?

Answer 1

Of course, and the liberal and homosexual agendas have harmed us tremendously.

Answer 2

Well, I would say the way Mother Nature intended, but I see your point. For many people, perhaps even most, this is true. But people have all different needs and interests, and sometimes different positions or different partners are necessary for their satisfaction.

As to the term "better," if you take that as a normative issue -- that is, more moral -- then it depends on what you believe, doesn't it?

Answer 3

Wakan Tanka said no such thing, neither did Odin, Ra, Ptah, Zeus, or any of the other gods. Not even Jehova made that statement. Now, as for this perfect plan, can you tell me which god planned this, and why do you pee out of the same organs that you use to enjoy sexual relations? Wouldn't the "plan" be better if that WASN'T the case? Sounds like a flawed plan to me.

Answer 4

I truly agree and this comes from a person who never believed that and lived free and easy. The world lures us away from this perfection so best to align ourselves with people who believe the same and don't put ourselves in tempting situations. Sex is a beatiful gift, but the drive is incredibly strong. when emotions and physical takes over it's very hard to think logically and of the right thing to do.

Answer 5

Sexual relations are much better when had in the way God intended.
I know this to be true and a treasured time inside marriage.

Answer 6

It doesn't mean that it will feel better, but that it is better. Our society has a problem choosing what we feel, and don't look at the long term consequences. I believe that it is better for multiple reasons. Also, it should only be the privelage of married people to have sex because of all work marraige is. Having sex before marraige is like stealing a reward.

Answer 7

'Gods' do not exist.
Sex is 'better' for many of us as you describe who happen to be Hetero.
Homosexuals are not 'turned on' by the same things as Heteros.
AND I don't remember ever choosing to be Hetero and nor does any other Hetero or Homo guy or gal.
This is quite contrary to what many fundies are taught by their pastors who have no real knowledge about psychology let alone physiology.

So the short answer is: whatever rocks your boat consensually.

Answer 8

Well, the way I understand it, in Christianity, all sex is nasty, and you shouldn't be doing it at all, except to have children. But certainly not for pleasure.

At least in Islam, healthy sexual relations are encouraged (if the woman wants it, it's the man's DUTY to accomodate her!), and married people are considered to be holier than single people. I like that part.

Answer 9

Marriage is originally accepted way of sex by society which give sex and a nice next generation also. As far one man and one woman is concerned bible do no make any limit for marriages even hundreds are mentioned. It was Quran which limited it to maximum four by one is considered preferred. Please read the following also.

6.28) No Limit for Marriages in Bible and Old Religions:

It is narrated that father of so many Prophets Abraham (peace be upon him) married three wives, Sarah, Hagar and Kenturah (Bible:Genesis 16,25), and Prophet Ishmael (peace be upon him) married two wives (See Hadith), Prophet Jacob (peace be upon him) married four Leah and Rachel his cousins, Zilpah and Bilhah maids (Genesis 29,30) and his brother Esau have same number Adah, Ahobimah, daughter of Zibeon and Besemath daughter of Ishmael (Genesis 36) (See Genesis 16), Prophet David (peace be upon him) married tens of wives, except concubines (read bible). Prophet Solomon (peace be upon him) is told to have married seven hundred wives with three hundred concubines (1 Kings 11:14) and his son Rheboam married eighteen wives and sixty concubines (Chronicles 11:21) and Prophet Abijah (peace be upon him) is reported to have 14 wives (2-Chronicles13:21). And Raja Man Singh of India was correct in marrying one thousand five hundred queens as per traditions.

6.29) Islam Gave Rules for Marriage;

Islam made only a limit to number of marriages which was unlimited before. Four - but only one is better if you cannot keep perfect justice, see the only verse in Quran about number of marriage. And this is also help for poor widows and safety for childless and helpless ladies. And this helps to avoid the crime of illegal sex. Which is common in monogamaic western society and caused wide spread immorality and spread infectious diseases (AIDS, burns etc.).

3 If you fear that you shall not be able to treat the orphans with fairness, then you should not marry the women with orphan children; marry other women of your choice: two, three or four. But if you fear that you will not be able to maintain justice between your wives, then marry only one or any slave girl you may own. That will be more suitable, so that you may not deviate from the Right Way. (Quran 4An-Nisaa)

Answer 10

Nope. I think you're full self righteous crap.

Sexual relations are better when had in any way the 2 people,regardless of gender, want the relations to go.

Answer 11

How do you know every woman feels that way? You don't, just because you are Christian does not make you right about every thing and everyone on this earth. I think different people prefer different things.