how can this happen......to me?

Question

My girlfriend likes this other guy and you can tell she dose and the onlt reason she staying with me is becuz he smokes pot and she dose'nt like that.i found all this out from 3 of her friends who are friends of mine as well.i turely and deeply love her and don't know what to do i mean i fell like killing myself now dose anybody know what to do

Answer 1

you need to talk to her, your irritated and i can see why, but seriously just talk to her. tell her you know she likes that guy, and if she denies it tell her that everyone has told you that she liked that pot head guy. and tell her that you really do love her... she should pick you. but dont kill yourself over her..... you need to let all your feelings out. go rent a movie... and get those feelings out right now!!! buy some chocolate too, i swear that helps.

Answer 2

Dude is she really worth your life? The answer to that question is NO!! She is not good at all if she can't tell you the truth. She is not the only girl in the world. I know it feels like that right now because you are hurting inside, but that will all go away in a matter of days...trust me!! My fiance and I were supposed to get married Sept. the 8th and just last week he decided he was gonna move out. I felt really sad at first but then I realized there are plenty of fish in the sea!! The world is an ocean and I am going fishing...you see what I'm saying? It's had nothing to do with you personally, she is just not the right person. When you find that person you will not feel any pain, sadness or disappointment. You have a long life ahead of you this is only a road block!!! I am 32 years old and I have had a tough life but nothing is worth taking my own life because I have way to much left to live and so do you!!!! Go out with someone prettier and smarter than she is. That will really chap her hide. I know that you can.You just don't realize your own potential. You have the power to do what ever it is that you want. It is inside you and you just have to find it. We are all blessed with the power but some of us forget or never learn how to use it. Don't ever let anyone bring you down, you were put on this earth for a purpose, God does not make mistakes or pieces of junk!!! Now you pick your chin up and move on to the next chapter cause now you have the tools that you need to do so. You are a good person and you do deserve happiness. You are worthy of much more!!! Let me know how you feel later and if you need someone to talk to I will do so!! You just wipe that thought of suicide right out of your mind this instant!!!

Answer 3

First of all, she might like someone but not in a relationship type of way. You are asking friends who mostly will not be telling you the truth anyway, ask her about it. If she is friends with the guy let it go, tell her that you feel that she has feelings for him and see what she says. If she doesnt like something that he does then she wont want to be in a relationship with him, trust me. You are probably just over reacting to the whole situation, dont ask her friends, and especially if they are girls, you wont get the truth.

Answer 4

first dnt kill urself over one girl im sure ur really hurt rite now but every relationship has a beging and an end....and unfortunatly urs is endin jus think of how much happier u will be once u relive urself from all the pain and sufferin and start a new life with someone else...no girl is worth dyin over if she is hurtin u this much then that jus shows how much she really cares for u

Answer 5

first and foremost, I'm sorry you had to hear that. it's even harder to hear when it's not her telling you herself. but if she truly loved you she wouldn't have been looking at another guy in the first place, so that tells me that you were kind of like a time-killer, someone to be with until she found someone else.

but before you go jumping to conclusions, confront her about it. you never know when you might mistake innocent talking/mingling with something more. and if she truly is interested in him, I know it'll be hard, but you should break up with her and find someone who loves you (and only you). she doesn't deserve you or your attention

Answer 6

just set her free...correct me if im wrong but the latest survey i've heard the ration between men and women is 1:5, there are still 4 ladies waiting around. don't waste time for someone desiring for another man..in the end if she comes back to you and you still guys want each other then it only means you are really meant to be.

Answer 7

Sorry 4 what ur going through. U could tell her how much u love her n talk about this pot guy, if she gets mad, remember it was not ur fault, she's got her own mind n thoughts.
Good luck!!

Answer 8

Confront her. Tell her that you know how she feels about this guy, and that you feel she is being unfair to you by stringing you along. Tell her that it is time for her to decide what is more important to her. Your love, or the pot smoking guy.

Answer 9

yeah....start smoking pot so she leaves you alone too...She's not worth killing for...trust me. If you don't break it off with her, they she'll continually use you and be with you until a better guy comes along (like someone with better car or more money so on so forth) It happens to alot of people..If it happens one time its excusable but if you let it happen over and over....its just plain stupidity.

Answer 10

its good game. if a woman has her heart set for another man, dude get packing.