this may sound weird but true. ok so theres this girl ive always liked i like her personality and everything else about her and we have been friends for a while now but i have never managed to be able to ask her out. well i was in a conversation with her and i was just about to ask her when i noticed her friend and some other lady were amused about somthing they called her over and she looked back at me and also started giggle. well out of instinct i looked down and noticed surely enough i have a erection they left chuckling what do i do? is my chance with her over?
2007-08-28 17:55:17 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oh boy!!!! man down stairs decided to give a standing ovation!!!!! bummer!!!-LOL
well she found it amusing, and now she knows u are most definitely sexually attracted to her. but what where y'all talking about??? or are u just that sexually charged??
now u must just look cutely embarrassed and say sorry about that....but now u know...(and look her into her eyes smile shyly and walk away) u'll be leaving her curious...then so a week after that ask her out.
2007-08-28 18:02:43 · answer #1 · answered by Phoenix21 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not at all! If you have been friends for a long time, and she is a mature adult she will understand that, "things come up" hehe sorry I could not resist. The best thing to do is play it off, laugh at yourself and just maybe say something like, well obviously I have wanted to ask you out for a while. I am sorry if I embarrassed you. This way she will see that you have a sense of humor. Trust me a real friend will understand and you never know, if you can share a laugh about it, it may only make you closer!
2007-08-29 01:00:16 · answer #2 · answered by brandi91980 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, you could still ask her out. She might, upon reflection, decide the incident was rather cute. With that said, however, I must say I don't think she likes you because she probably wouldn't have giggled about that if she did. Sorry. Maybe you can find a more mature girl. God bless.
2007-08-29 01:00:45 · answer #3 · answered by wizball 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This really is not a serious question. You knew that you had an erection but unless you were wearing only boxers (no jeans); no one else would have noticed. Your chance with her is equal to anyone else that has a chance.
2007-08-29 01:02:48 · answer #4 · answered by Boomer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh dear, that is an embarrassing situation. Apologize to her, tell her that you do respect her and didn't know about the erection. It's kind of like burping or farting in front of someone I guess. Hopefully she'll be like 'that's OK' and you'll be alright with her again.
2007-08-29 01:00:08 · answer #5 · answered by Lorreign v.2 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No no no... you can play it off. It's best to just own up to it in a cocky and funny way. Say, "yeah, I had an erection. I'm a guy. It's.. what we do." Or something better. Guys tend to forget, it's OKAY TO BE A GUY around women. Guys get erections. Women want guys to be men, right?
2007-08-29 00:59:03 · answer #6 · answered by Billman 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
i personally would not feel like it was silly i would take it as a complement. so no i dont think your chance is over. i think that she might give you a chance. so follow your heart if you want her ask her out. but maybe the first time you should go to dinner and a movie ( or somewhere dark) see if anything happens to YOU again... :D
JB
2007-08-29 01:01:58 · answer #7 · answered by Jenny B 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hey man, that's rough.
Good news though, you'll still have a chance if you're packin'!
Just kidding.
You'll have another chance if she is interested in you, if not, then erection or not, you wouldn't have had a chance.
2007-08-29 01:00:13 · answer #8 · answered by the red shore 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her its the pleats in your pants and you're on your way to the pants store to return them as you speak. Then walk it off, however awkwardly you have to do it.
2007-08-29 00:59:58 · answer #9 · answered by George M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her that was only a "half-on" and there's plenty for her 2 friends as well.
2007-08-29 00:58:49 · answer #10 · answered by peter_parker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋