my dad cheats on my mom. i know, im not stupid. im not going into detail about how i know cus its too much but i know and dont ask me if i know for sure or not cus i do know for sure. my mom is very insecure. my dad has cheated on her before because its came out in proof to both me and my mom before and she told me about other times. she always asks me if hes cheating on her and of course ill tell her no because i cant handle this family being broken any more than it is. my dad yells and screams when the littlest thing breaks. he has anger problems and my mom is bipolar and suffers from paranoid/ schizophrenia. i got test many times and as far as i know i have any mental disorders. i can't tell my mom whats going on. it hurts me everyday i live on this earth. im sick of my dads cheating and yelling. and im sick of my mom's insecurities. what are some bible verses that can help me get through this time. even if you're not a Christian, give me some tips to help me through this. please?
2007-08-28 17:22:40 · 5 answers · asked by britt4life718 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Your dad is repeating it again and again.I think it is time your parents get a separation. My dad was a cheater and he didn't stop. Now, my mom stopped playing the fool and got separated. It serves him right. So maybe you should tell your mom about this already and finish this over. You have to tell her about your problems. the more you keep it for yourself, the more you well get ill. You got to speak it out. Don't worry about the others. They are old enough to handle it. First priority is yourself.
2007-08-28 19:04:40 · answer #1 · answered by LadyXSakura 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I kinda know how you're feeling. When I was 13 my dad left me, my mom, and my sister for another woman. He had apparently been seeing her for a while and we never knew. He always lied when asked about her. Just months later they got married. My mom almost lost her mind. She put me and my sister through alot of stuff because she was so sad and upset. To this day her and my dad don't like to even look at each other. It hurt then and still hurts often when I think of it again, and I'm 27 yrs. old. Anyway, I assume you're a teen? If so, I think you should turn to another adult close to you that you trust and tell them what you're going through. Or first, you should turn to your parents separately and talk to them about how you feel and let them know that you are afraid and upset with what is going on in your family. Take another adult along to lean on if you have to. If they really love you then they will change and make things better for your family somehow, if not for themselves then for you. Hope this helps. If you want to talk to somebody then you can e-mail me anytime. (Go to my profile) Take care.
2007-08-28 17:54:56 · answer #2 · answered by ♥~tattooed wifey~♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not have an answer for you that will make things magically disappear. Even Christians have bad things go on in their lives. It is who we turn too for support that makes us who we are.
Romans 5:1-5 NIV
Therefore, since we have been justified thorugh faith, we have peace with God through our Lord Jesus Christ, through whom we have gained access by faith into this grace in which we now stand. And we rejoice in the hope of the glory of God. Not only so, but we also rejoice in our sufferings, because we know suffering produces perserverance; perserverance, character; and character, hope. And hope does not disappoint us, because God has poured out his love int our hearts by the Holy Spirit, who he has given us.
There is a lot of healing that needs to happen in your life and in the lives of your parents. Healing only Jesus can provide. You may want to ask a close friend (christian friend) and/or pastor for prayer, advise, counsel for you and then talk to your folks. If you cannot talk write a letter. Pray about it. Truely ask God in Jesus' Name to give you strenght and courage.
My prayers are with you Friend
2007-08-28 19:14:15 · answer #3 · answered by bobbo342 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The wicked man earns deceptive wages, but he who sows righteousness reaps a sure reward.
Proverbs 11:18
2007-08-28 17:35:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its temporary, soon you will be adult and you will be on you own. When your dad start yelling go take a walk. Be strong and support your mom.
2007-08-28 17:51:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋