Basically, split with my boyfriend for 4 weeks cos the spark wasnt there and i felt unappreciated. He said he missed me alot and called me to go back together. Things where going well but for some reason he wont bring his friends out with me at the same time now. I was on his myspace and his messages during the time of the split say things like "Glad the gold diggers gone" "I can party now that shes away" and he also has messages from a girl who i know saying "cant wait to do that again baby" ect....he said the other night that i was the "one" but i cant get over these messages cos they are lies.
2007-08-28 17:22:11 · 11 answers · asked by janeysmithster 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well i think you should drop him cuz if you break up with him again he may say even worseer stuff about so hes not the tupe i guy that really loves you cuz if he did he would never do that to you. i would dump him if i was you!!
2007-08-28 17:33:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just wondering why you got back with him?
you say you split because the spark had gone and you felt unappreciated,
yet you get back together just cos he missed you?
what did the spark suddenly light up again??
Do you really want to be with this guy who doesn`t appreciate you and made up lies about you (even if they were just to save face).
Don`t settle for second best.
2007-08-29 02:40:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay first is first.did he apolozise.b/c if he didn't then that means,,he was just making up..like missin' you a lot or whatever!!..not apologizing means he didn't learnt his lessons..or don't feel sorry when you two broke up...i think he planned to hurt you..if he was sorry then why will he said something like Glad the gold diggers gone" "I can party now that shes away" what a heartless guys is he..you better dump him,,there are more nice guys out there..then to be with someone who's a liar..
2007-08-29 00:32:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him then- four weeks isn't anything to cry over really- there are better men than that and you deserve better. You so don't want to go out with a man who talks like that about you- it shows he has no repsect for you and you have little respect for yourself if you allow him to treat you like that.
2007-08-29 01:26:16 · answer #4 · answered by Ellie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is a jerk. You were better off without him. Why would you lower yourself to date a guy that not only lied about you, but will not even let you go out with him and his friends. Tell him to hit the road. You deserve better than that!!!
2007-08-29 00:31:12 · answer #5 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it all depends on how old you guys are.If you are both youn,under 21, it could just be him trying to be cool.If your older there is a problem. This other girl.She wouldnt write something like that unless something happened.
2007-08-29 00:29:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think that hes right for u. i mean just becuase u guys break up doesnt mean he has the right to do that to u. i think that u will find somone better. and besides, exs never work the second timeee
2007-08-29 00:30:21 · answer #7 · answered by dreamer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is normal. Most people don't want to say " I screwed up". My old GF was perfect and she DUMPED ME. BUT you don't have to do that to her. Be nice. Don't spread bad stuff. Good luck.
2007-08-29 00:29:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never go out with an ex.
2007-08-29 00:26:46 · answer #9 · answered by Wolf Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are they lies, or are they they truth about how he feels?
You might want to reconsider taking him back!!
2007-08-29 00:28:52 · answer #10 · answered by zanthus 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋