why is she doing this to me?

Question

i have seen grandma for 2 weeks. i usually see her once a week. i cry every night cuz i miss her. she is always busy and hanging out with her older friends. she never calls me and when i call her she doesnt answer. i cant leave a message. she has no machine. this time i havent called her for a week. i usually call her every few days. why isnt she callling me? it hurts so much. i feel like she never has time for me. last time i didnt call her she was worried. why do i always have to be the first one to call her? why cant she ever call me for once? i dont want to seem needy. how can i make her call me?

Answer 1

What does this have to do with singles and dating?

Whatever. Anyhow, just ask her to call you more. Tell her how you feel. It is really that hard? She's your grandma, she loves you! By the way, you have my sympathy.

Answer 2

I applaud you for wanting a closer relationship with your grandma, and no ,that does not make you needy.I suggest that you call your grandma until you can reach her.When you do, tell her everything you have written here ---that you love her, that you miss her, that you wish she would call you a lot more frequently,that she hurts you with her silence,that sometimes you feel she has no time for you.Tell her you enjoy seeing her once a week but you haven't seen her in almost three weeks.Then ask her if there is anything you can do to improve the chances of seeing her more often and/or talking to her a lot more.I am sure before too long you will have your heart's desire.I am rooting for you .Good luck.

Answer 3

I would just basically, Try to talk to her and tell her how you feel, and If she doesn't have time to listen tell her that she is going to have to make time because ya'lls relationship is at Jepordy

Answer 4

Just tell her u miss her and wish that she would call u.

Answer 5

Your dating your grandma?????

Thats sick!

The Rat