Guys, would you think I'm crazy, desperate or simply immature?..if you were in his shoes=p?

Question

Ok..so i had a fling (or some sort wwith this guy, yeah sex and few dates) he was interested initially (or so he seems to beie asking me out, texting etc) then all the sudden,he seems to lose interest when i started to like him. he was courteous tho, always replying to my texts but ive asked him out a few times and each and everytime,he turns me down,claiming to be busy and all. anyway,(though i was taking the hint) i refused to give up and pursued him (stupid, i know). the last straw came when i asked him our for a movie(thru text) and he ignored my text and didnt reply.i was miffed and texted him a day later, telling him at least he should have replied(even if its a no). he replied almost immediately,claiming he's busy(again) and turned down my movie date,even saying he's sorry. ok, i was p!ssed as well(being rejected again)and did the dumbest thing.i texted him and told him im not going to talk nor contact him anymore coz' i admitted i was embarrased as hell.im not noramlly this

immature but i really liked him. i behaved out of impulse and didnt like the fact that he doesnt even have the courtesy to text me a reply. im still having sum church activities which i will see him again tomorrow and i really dont know if i should be immature, keeping my words and ignore him. btw, he didnt reply after my crazy text.

Answer 1

Hmmmm yea I see why he acts the way he does. You on the other hand are reaching TO HARD for a lover. No offense but hows the friend situation? Usually it takes some good friends around us to stop us from being foolish and not do things like that. And also makes it easier to take a hint, and not do something stupid afterwards. Also you have a stubborn heart, GREAT! He misses out on that, but that means you need to be carful with it, and DON'T give it away so easily. Find some good friends, look outside that church (alittle!), and read some good books (as many works of fiction you can, that don't blur that line of religion, we can have GREAT stories wihout god being mentioned once). Its just that a little bit more knowledge about you and yourself will help you to handle situations like this in the future....