ok.. well there is a boy who i like and he used to play baseball with my brother, he is my age, really shy and cute and nice well everyone said he liked me and i like him, ALOT but we are both really shy, now i just got transferred schools and i see him everyday at lunch ( we dont ahve any classes together) and i would really want him to say hi to me, well now my friend is telling me if he likes me and is shy then he would want me to say hi, but again as i say, i am shy too please help, how do i work up the nerve to talk to him? and what would i say? please help. i do think he might like me bc another of my and his friends asked him if he liked me and he said " no maybe yes no maybe yes yes no maybe'' please help! thanks in advanced
best answer 10 points!
2007-08-28 13:11:23 · 11 answers · asked by meg 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he is worth it, and i really try to talk to him but when i go over and try to, well it is like my mouth just... gets sewen shut... i was the score keeper of my brothers team so i kind of inter-acted with the team, but that is kind of all i talked to him about, just baseball and barely,
we are both EXTREMELY shy
2007-08-28 13:16:40 · update #1
OH! and he knows i like him.. my friend who asked him if he likes me (also played on the team) told him.. soo he does know that i know he plays on the team lol
2007-08-28 13:25:10 · update #2
OK im the same way. So, what you do is get his a.i.m and talk to him there. Then, you will find things that you guys have in common and itll be SO much easier to come up and talk to him. But, REMEMBER.. if you come up and talk to him dont just tap him on the shoulder and say HI and run away. Because he'll think you have mental problems. LOL. Just say hey, and bring up something you talked about last night. Soon enough, he'll be very relaxed around you and ask you out :D
*BTW, DONT DO ANYTHING THAT DOESNT INVOLVE TALKING IN SOME WAY. Dont leave a note. Dont tap him and walk away. NONE OF THAT! Just come up and talk after you get to know him. :)
2007-08-28 13:16:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First stop trying to bribe a good answer by waving ten points in front of people.The promise of the ten points will not get you a good answer unless one is available.However, since you are both shy, why don't you try using one of your common friends to get your feelings known to him .This way he will know you like him and you will also know he likes you.and then the initial ice is broken.Better yet, you can enlist your brother's help to do the job since they are friends or at least baseball buddies( if your brother loves you and does not mind introducing you to his friends; some brothers will not do it).So get get him tiger .
2007-08-28 20:28:00 · answer #2 · answered by abbeycoolit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only advice I can give you is just go for it. If you like him enough, then you will work up the nerve to do it. Get him before anybody else does.
2007-08-28 20:16:01 · answer #3 · answered by SAT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok im guessing you guys are both at the tip of saying "I want to be with you so bad"!! , so i say just go for it. that will make him fell relived and you too. Im almost positive that he likes you, im shy too so I would know.
2007-08-28 20:37:37 · answer #4 · answered by Jinx176 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you know he likes you, then why are you so damn shy! Just go up to him and talk to him. I could understand if you didn't know he liked you, but you do know, so just talk to him! It's not like he's a stranger or anything.
2007-08-28 20:18:07 · answer #5 · answered by All That Jazz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Omg i remember when i was really shy...
Just be confident and if he dosn't say hi
then you say hi...
if your to shy
go with your friend and say hi
just act like your passing by and you notice him
you can say"Hey" your friend could say hi to =]]
And then you should just be like "didn't you play baseball with
my brother" he'll probably be like "yeah i did"
and you could be like "Oh cool i saw you play your pretty good....do you still play?
and so on he'll probably be like yeah
and then you should tell him that maby you might see one of his games when he has one...
and so on
the conversation should just flow....
Hope i helped and remember just be confident
and be yourself
2007-08-28 20:19:42 · answer #6 · answered by Daniela17 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell your self that if you don't then you are the one missing out on something that could be great for you. if it is worth it to you then you will be able to find it in you to work your nerves. after the first sentence it is cake
2007-08-28 20:18:00 · answer #7 · answered by longhorn06champ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okey, you have to get over your fear of talking to him. talking is not going to hurt you. casually go over to where he is sitting, and ask if the seat is taken. then try to engange in some sort of converstion. even small talk is acceptable as it will enable you to strenghten a friendship and even in your possibility a relationship.
2007-08-28 20:18:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know sweetie. basically all you do is take a deep breath and say: "hey umm do u wanna eat lunch together?" good luck!
2007-08-28 20:16:03 · answer #9 · answered by Hannah G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
write a note
2007-08-28 20:16:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋