2007-08-28 12:41:24 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't know how close the 2 of you work together. It's not a real good idea to date someone at work. If it doesn't work out there is an awkward feeling in the entire environment. But if you must, just invite a group of people out to eat at lunch and get to know her better like that, in front of a group of people. Remember, just getting to know her first and let it grow from there. If you know each other better I think that you would be able to talk to her a little better without it seeming like harassment.
2007-08-28 12:49:12 · answer #1 · answered by Christine H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely do not attempt anything during work hours. Perhaps approach her after work and ask her to join you for coffee or dinner. If she declines, drop it and move on. If she accepts, take it slow and easy. Don't start flirting at work because it will appear unprofessional and innapropriate. Know your company's policies on interoffice relationships, and be prepared to deal with any possible consequences, should your involvement with her develop and be discovered by management. Good luck!
2007-08-28 19:48:40 · answer #2 · answered by EnglishRose21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont date at work, but if you cant help yourself, just ask in a polite way that has nothing vulgar. If its just a simple "hello, I was wondering if you would like to have dinner with me sometime, or coffee after work?" You wont get in trouble. But if your all touchy touchy..then your gunna get an ear full and possibly loose your job. Steer clear of the hugs and just play it safe.
2007-08-28 19:47:41 · answer #3 · answered by rendology_101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are her boss, you must keep it to yourself. If you are a co-worker, why would some innocent flirting land you sexual harassment? Flirt, but don't be sexual. If she is interested, she'll flirt back. If she's not, you'll get that signal too...
2007-08-28 19:49:21 · answer #4 · answered by Lissie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Co-Worker + Relationship = Very Bad Idea
If you absolutely must get to know her, try to arrange to meet with her some place outside of work. Then...proceed with caution.
2007-08-28 19:46:19 · answer #5 · answered by Mathsorcerer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly speak to her, get to know her more then gently find right time to let her know your feelings for her but don't go over the top of trying to get to know her, like following her around etc.
Good Luck!!
2007-08-28 19:46:36 · answer #6 · answered by juniper 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are her boss or superior, forget it! If you are a same level co-worker approach her outside of work only. Start ith coffee. Keep your personal life OUT of the workplace.
2007-08-28 19:45:29 · answer #7 · answered by that judi 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
dude. you don't have to ask the woman to bed with you right off the bat. Casually ask her out for coffee, or lunch first! Grow a pair, & go for it, or she'll begin to think that your a loser; & then you'll never get the girl!!! You don't want that!
2007-08-28 19:51:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the first answer, but if you're going to pursue what your emotions are telling you, just go up and tell her, but if she says she's not interested, that's where you must end it. If you keep bugging her after she says no, then you might get yourself in trouble
2007-08-28 19:46:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Casually Ask her out to dinner/coffe as collegues(?) and gradually work up to telling her your true feelings
2007-08-28 19:46:51 · answer #10 · answered by singergirl13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋