well heres my problem short and sweet ... MY MOM HAS HAD LIVER CANCAR FOR 7 YEARS ! first she had brest cancer thenit transfered to her liver . in 3 rd grade she almost died like every week i bawl my eyes out and tell God i dont know wat 2 do and shes never happy so that just brings me down more and last year in school i was never happy wat can i do
2007-08-28 11:53:21 · 6 answers · asked by ME M 1 in Health ➔ Diseases & Conditions ➔ Cancer
ps : and wat brings me down more is my sis hacked on this and said im gay and i have acne which i dont and i have glasses and braceds and i draw cartoons so my life sux
2007-08-28 11:59:22 · update #1
pss: + im in 6th and im like 149 pounds and the medicen my mom takes makes her feel like she hads the flue for weeks and i need a hug i forgot watthey feel like
2007-08-28 12:05:07 · update #2
Aww sweetie, HUGE cyber hugs coming your way!
My mother had cancer when I was your age, and I know how it hurts.
First, go and give your Mom a gentle fhug and tell her you love her.
Then, put your thinking cap on and think of an adult you can confide in, an aunt, friend's Mom, teacher, friend of the family, SOMEONE!!!
You need support through this as much as your Mother does, and your Mom can't give that to you right now, she needs you to be helping her.
There are support groups for children of cancer patients where you can talk to others who understand what you are going through.
If all else fails, try punching pillows while saying "it's not fair" and crying! At least it lets some of the stress out of your system, so you can go and show a smiling face to your Mom!
Part of her unhappiness is probably seeing you so unhapy and not being able to help. You will be suprised what good a hug, a smile and the words "I love you" will do!
2007-08-28 12:24:57 · answer #1 · answered by Tarkarri 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Your sister is being really mean. She has her own problems to be so mean to you.
Your mom is miserable. You might try giving her a hug and see if she can give you one back. Is there another older family member who would hold and hug you? Tell them you need a hug. Sometimes when adults are upset about what is going on, they don't think about what the kids are going through. This is very tough. Get support. If you can't get it at home, tell your teacher. There are people at the school who could be very helpful to you.
2007-08-28 22:42:01 · answer #2 · answered by Simmi 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It'd be good to ask your mom for a hug. I bet she'd like one too.
Is there anyone else (besides your mom) taking care of you? It's really OK to have a cry and ask for some support....and ask how you can get some other help to deal with this.
It's a big task for a 6th grader to have to deal with a mom with cancer. Ask for help - and accept what help is offered. Try to stay in touch with your friends and do the stuff they do....your mom doesn't expect you to stay home and be sad. It's OK to laugh and have fun. Even if she isn't doing too well, I bet she wants you to have as good a time as you can, and build a good network of friends.
2007-08-28 19:27:19 · answer #3 · answered by heckenhocker 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Tell your sister to get a life! If she had one, she wouldn't have to bother you so much. As far as your mom's situation, try talking with a school counselor. That's what they're there for. Or, if you belong to a religious group, talk to your priest or minister. They can offer some suggestions that might actually help you deal with what you're going through or refer you to somebody that can. Good luck!!
2007-08-28 19:13:28 · answer #4 · answered by Amethyst 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Here are lots of hugs from me to you......OOOOOOOOO
squeeze hard please....
Sisters are such a pain/blessing.
2007-08-29 11:58:47 · answer #5 · answered by Patches6 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
too long sorry
2007-08-28 20:11:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋