Is THIS FOR REAL????

Question

Ok i just recently started going out with this girl it's been maybe a week... i have known her for like a month or so... She is a great girl i like her alot... lately has been telling me that she loves me, i did not think she was serious but apperantley she is... It feels like high school all over again maybe even middle school... lol what should i do
PS: I have never said it back to her

We did talk about it, and i did tell her that i like her alot but that it is not love... I just feel kinda weird being in this situation... I can't understand why she would fall in love so soon

Answer 1

Kinda sounds like she wants to get in your pants.

Answer 2

Well If you dont feel the same way about her dont lie to her about it either. If she ever asks you why you dont tell her back just tell her you are in a different level on feelings than she is. Some girls just want to be loved back and think if they say it that they will hear it back. But her feelings might be lust and not love and she hasnt realized it. So take it slow and maybe you should talk to her about it. Ask her how she fell in love with you in such a short time (which could be possible though) I got married with my husband after knowning him for only 2 weeks and we have been together now for 9 yrs and stilll very much in love. But she couldve grown to love you in the mth and a week you all have known each other.

Answer 3

you shouldnt say it back to her unless you actually mean it, and that could be weeks or months or never even. I think its a little wierd how she's said it so soon and it would freak me out probably...actually thats being hypocritical. I have been going out with this guy for like less than a week but i've known him 2 years and i think i'm inlove. and its for real this time.

if she means it she means it there is nothing you can do about it, just dont rush things because of what she's said. x

Answer 4

Suggest to her that you both need to know each other better before the love word comes up again. Tell her that you think she is great, but things could be moving to fast.9-

Answer 5

Don't return the phrase until (and if ever) you mean it. I think the earlier the better to tell her that while you appreciate her affectionate nature, it makes you uncomfortable to hear "I love you" so early in the dating process. Tell her that you were raised to use that term rarely and sincerely. Reassure her you don't discredit her feelings, but ask her to respect yours by letting the relationship develop before things get so heavy. Good luck!

Answer 6

Tell her to chill out and that you are a little uncomfortable with the instant "love". Tell her you want the two of you to get to know each other better before you start with the I love you's.

Answer 7

Ahhh, the joys of love, and only in 1 week??...ya think it is real?? Sit her down, give her a cup of tea and have a serious chat with her about the pending relationship.....she needs to make herself clear as to what she means and you need to fully understand where she is coming from too.

Answer 8

The best thing is to just tell her how you feel. You may not love her but you still want to date her. Ask her to tone it down a notch. If she truly loves you she will understand and take your feelings into consideration.

Answer 9

run for the hills! no.. it does sound strange that you've known her a month and went out with her a week and now she is saying she loves you.. sounds like a clingy, "fatal attraction" type to me.
I would talk with her and ask her why she thinks she loves you... get a straight answer...she sounds like she could be pretty insecure..

Answer 10

Run far.. run fast. Anyone who starts throwing around the "L" word THAT soon is someone who's going to be clingy and desperate.