i have been seeing someone for over 3years and he has a younger girl that lives with him and they spend most of his time together she is 22yrs younger than him. i am 7yrs younger than him he says he wants us to be friends and lovers what should i think or feel is he playing games?he told me that we are compatiable and that he is only helping her for a little while, he says she gets on his nerves. i love him very much and want him in my life. I am 35 yrs old and have raised my son thats 19 now. i need to know if i being a fool or not.
2007-08-28 09:34:34 · 10 answers · asked by virginia 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i would say your beig a fool. you just need to follow your heart .just give him a little more time. he's not trying to hurt any body's feelings that's why its taking so long (hopefully)
2007-08-28 09:44:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes you are a fool. He can love you and live with her and will probably never leave her. He hooked up with a chick literally half his age and he will die before he lets go, even if she eats crackers in bed. He may love you and a lot of things about you, but you are still a fool. He won't let go.
2007-08-28 16:42:34 · answer #2 · answered by bocasbeachbum 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In a word, yes. Basically he wants it to be like old times where you could have your wife, and mistress, they knew about each other and wanted them to be friends. Honestly are YOU okay with it? Personally i wouldnt want my man with another woman, not to mention him asking us to be lovers. He wants his cake and to eat it too and its your choice to decide wether you should let him. To me you're being a fool and letting him have all the fun. would he be okay with you having your own little boy toy on the side? if not, its time to get out.
2007-08-28 16:42:38 · answer #3 · answered by colostomy_punch 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My daughter was in a LTR relationship with someone that was in his 40's while she's in her twenties. Age difference does matter. After 5 years, they've broken up but in the meantime you've got someone who wants his cake and eat it too.
2007-08-28 16:44:58 · answer #4 · answered by bobbijo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Virginia,
Forgive me for being blunt, but yes, you are being a fool.
A question for you to ponder is:
If he tells you she gets on his nerves, what does he say about you?
Stop sleeping with him.
2007-08-28 16:45:55 · answer #5 · answered by sleepingliv 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just because they live together doesn't mean they have to spend all their time together. he's a phony my guess. dont continue this relationship. unless you can really be sure he is not fooling around and you won't get tired of her and him spending time together, don't continue
2007-08-28 16:43:11 · answer #6 · answered by million$? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has a live-in girlfriend!!! She doesnt live with him, they live with eachother. Dont fall for it!!!! Use common sense. He's saying that he doenst want you to be his woman, you just meet up and he gets what he wants from time to time. He is so lying...
2007-08-28 16:52:38 · answer #7 · answered by MiaDiva28 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answer is there. He is living with her and to be honest. . . I dont' see him moving out anytime soon. Move on.
2007-08-28 16:41:04 · answer #8 · answered by Billie A 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are being played. Stop seeing this guy.
2007-08-28 16:40:40 · answer #9 · answered by edepillim 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes you are
2007-08-28 16:41:20 · answer #10 · answered by Wifeforlife 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋