I had taken care of my mother for the past 4 years almost 24/7
7days a wek. I started staying at her house, my husband and I would have dates, Now it like my whole life is going to be differant and I dont know what to do HELP!!!!!!!!
2007-08-28 09:20:05 · 3 answers · asked by lmoe 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
hi. its never easy to loose those we love espcially when you took great care of them. my advice to you is to accept change and be willing to face that moment where you will break down coz you miss her so much. the time when you will need her so much,need to care for her again sometimes even blame yourself but be brave and strong and accept the change. make more time for your husband to make up for the time lost and remember he will also take time to adjust to having you back home and try not to expect too much, ask for help and support when you need it and you will get it dont just assume he knows all the time what you're going through.good luck.
2007-08-28 09:30:26 · answer #1 · answered by blackbooty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hear about your loss but the best thing for you to do is start living for yourself go shopping take a vacation while your on vacation grab a pen & a journal & write down what you want out of life & the steps you will take to pursue those things.
2007-08-28 16:25:50 · answer #2 · answered by kalik 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry for your loss. But this would happen sooner or later, you and your husband have to carry on with your lives. You did the best you could for your mom, this was great. But you have your life, we all have to go through the death of pepole we love.
2007-08-28 16:27:19 · answer #3 · answered by Steiner 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋