We had a bad break up BUT he's the best sex I've ever had. I still like him but I know realistically it wouldn't be anything but sex, and actually that'd be fine with me since I'm leaving the state. I just want him one more time......maybe twice.....lol. Also, guys, would you even consider having sex (strictly sex) with an ex if the break up was bad?
2007-08-28 08:55:53 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Actually, he broke up with me so it wouldn't be hurting him. And, I need the real thing....a dildo will never do. I just want him sexually one more time. He's the bomb.
2007-08-28 09:03:04 · update #1
The only way that can ahppen is if it were a long time ago. Or if he's a jerk and doesn't care and only wants sex. You'll have to tease him and flirt with him to find out. That means maybe wearing a dress or skirt with no panties and flashing him. Maybe a low cut blouse and conveniently bed over so he can see a littel something.
2007-08-28 09:01:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
if he's a complete a*hole i'm sure he wouldn't have a problem doing that. but a real MAN expects more than just sex. i have been put in that situation when i was younger and so have several others i know. it never ends well. if you had just met it would be fine, but since you two were in a relationship it's only going to bring back those old feelings he had for you. but you can try if you like, just please be honest and make sure he knows that it won't go anywhere up front. don't lie to him. then if you are both just in it for a one night stand then it will be no problem. but you never know it might also bring back the same feelings you had for him. just don't use the guy, get his hopes up, and then throw him away. i know what that can do to someone.
2007-08-29 01:49:01 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Haha, do you have to ask? Unless you two ended on really bad terms, then maybe sex would be hard, but for a man to reject guiltless sex with no strings attached? mama mia!
As long as you two are close enough to where you can still talk to him, sex will be easy. Just make it clear to him that you want sex and nothing more and if he's a man, he'll be more than happy to oblige. However, the exception is if he has a girl friend. Don't create drama :P
2007-08-28 16:01:43 · answer #3 · answered by Weird guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to do that? After you leave or even before you know guys...he'll talk crap. You dont want to leave like that and when you go back...everyone will know you as that girl. I'm not trying to be mean but I've been in a similar situation. Its not fun. Good luck and move on! Maybe you will meet a hottie in your new state.
2007-08-28 16:01:27 · answer #4 · answered by savannah710c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't see why not! Everyone's opinions is different. I wanted to have sex with my ex for so long. Finally 2 yrs later, we ended up having sex! Of course he was the best sex I ever had too! As I was to him, too! I say go for it!
2007-08-28 16:04:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
This sound crazy but i was thinking about something like this my self to make a long story short your going away and need to be intimate with him what ever. listen if he goes for the idea than go for it, but in my heart i know its not gonna happen. Remember sex is just not sex it is emotional battle as well. Good luck anyway
2007-08-28 16:03:09 · answer #6 · answered by mmurray001 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you are being selfish, You need to move on MissLady let that guy heal and reinvent himself, so he can be a better man and a better partner to someone who is going to love him. Not all guys like to be used only for sex. And yes I have had sex with my ex, after she broke up with me and it wasn't all that great.
2007-08-28 16:06:20 · answer #7 · answered by Jerome M 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, cuz I'm sure he didn't mind the sex. The prospect of just sex and you leaving the state and no one of his friends/gfs finding out would be too good to turn down. Go for it, nothing wrong with just alittle sumthin to remind u and him of better times in bed. Have fun!
2007-08-28 16:32:22 · answer #8 · answered by Chuck G 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Personally no, because that would represent a step backwards for me. Some I wouldn't be able to just have a sexual thing with because they disgust me, and some I couldn't have just a sexual thing with because old feelings would inevitably surface. So, for me it would just be a bad idea all around.
2007-08-28 16:03:13 · answer #9 · answered by Captain S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that you are giving the other an advantage and you are getting the disadvantage. You should move on. Your only hurting yourself in the end and lowering your standards. Exes are exes for a reason!
2007-08-28 16:00:48 · answer #10 · answered by greeneyes2kus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋