I Have Two Boyfriends and They're Both Bisexual. Why do People Think That It's Wrong???

Question

I'm a young hetrosexual virgin woman in my early 20's in a relationship with two bisexual men also in their early 20's who absolutely love me. I don't understand how anyone could disapprove of our relationship especially my friends and family. We all plan on getting married, I'll marry one of them while the other one will still be living with us so that it's still "legal". I've always had a problem with hetrosexual men since they have their insecurities and are lying unfaithful dogs. I find that bisexual men treat women a whole lot better and loves them much more. My boyfriends only look at me and not at other women since they find them all so "ugly". These are two successful and sexy men who treat me like their precious treasure. They don't have a problem with my modeling unlike my previous hetrosexual boyfriend. I can't wait for us to move in together and start a family. I plan on them taking my virginity and having each of their children since I love them and they love me.

Answer 1

some wild fantasy you have...

Answer 2

I even have this comparable situation yet my bf says this is fantastic if I also have a relationship with a woman... whether this is a few thing i will't do no remember how plenty I long for a woman. that's dishonest! except you're no longer seriose approximately ither relationship, and this is merely exciting, then I exceedingly propose which you haven't any longer have been given a greater robust 0.5 each intercourse. i know how tricky that's, whether that's erroneous and that's dishonest.

Answer 3

some people just don't like it that others are different. They don't think that bisexual people are natural , and think that they are even disgusting. It's just like an alien dropped in the middle of a city. People cant accept it, and they're scared. The thing is that if there is such a thing as bisexual people, then that means that it is natural.
People are also very prejudiced and have lots of stereotypes....they've never really known a bisexual person so they think that they're bad or somthing......if you're sure about it, then follow your heart. What matters is that you're happy. You can't give that up just b/c it'll make your friends and family happy.

edit: see, just read some of these comments. they don't accept different views from their own

Answer 4

People think it's wrong because it is still considered Socially unacceptable to be something other than heterosexual. Homosexual, Bisexual, heck even Metro-sexual is considered against the social NORM. If you want acceptance from those closest to you, don't divulge the basis of your relationship. The only people who will likely accept your situation as "fine" are those who are like minded / open minded to mixed relationships. Don't expect the social norms to change everyone else, just because you see things differently. Your lifestyle isn't the "norm", sadly, you are going to have to be the one to adjust to the way people think about your relationship. If your happy, and they (the men) are happy, then it doesn't matter what others think, does it.?

Answer 5

Good luck to you sister. I have to admit is sounds appealing to be the darling of TWO men, but you need to understand something about romantic love, which is what you are feeling right now. It wears off. When it wears off, all you have left to maintain your relationship (and your happiness) is the character and values of your husband (or husbands in your case). When "that loving feeling" wears off... ie when your husbands fall out of love with each other and you, what will keep you all together?

Unless your dear boys also have a deep and abiding commitment and integrity, your marriage/s will end in disaster and pain, just like every other one. Moral integrity is an essential part of a committed relationship. Do your boyfriends have this trait? Do you? It is something you need to assess.

The fact that you are still a virgin means (I guess) that you value sexual self-control. Is that something your boyfriends have also practiced? The ability to temper and control the sexual drive is what makes men able to be faithful when the romance and excitement wears off. In my experience, a bi-sexual is less likely to have the ability to control themselves in this way. They may be immature in the self-discipline needed to make a family work. Imagine if one or both of your husbands began to be unfaithful. How quickly you could become infected with some kind of disease, even if the emotional factors of betrayal did not affect you and your other man.

Make your own decision, but to me it seems that your judgment is being clouded by your romantic feelings. This is such a common problem in people who are searching for a mate. Use your brain and not your heart... because your heart is certainly being deceived by this pretty dream.

I hope that you can avoid the extreme disappointment that you seem to be heading for. But always know that healing can come through Christ, the man who truly loves us all. God bless you. xo

Answer 6

A bisexual by definition is not faithful to either sex. They enjoy male and female sex without preference or discrimination. Stating their bisexual sexual preferences/proclivities is openly stating & warning anyone and everyone of their propensity for being unfaithful to all and preferring neither.

Despite the physical dexterity of any of you, it is impossible for you to lose your virginity to two different men at the same time. You can/will lose your virginity ONCE and ONLY to one of them and what you have with the other is just sexual intercourse.

In the eyes of Almighty God and the legal court system, any child you might have with the man you are not legally married to will be a bastard. It will not be legitimate. Why would you want to put that added burden and insecurity upon an innocent child?

And I have to tell you that the realities of life and of relationships between the sexes are abysmally absent from your La-La-Land fantasy. No couple I know, be they heterosexual, lesbian, homosexual, or bisexual exists without internal and external challenges. And none of them who are committed to their relationship tolerate, encourage, nor condone promiscuity.

And such an open relationship with multiple partners quadruples your chances of contracting life-altering and/or life-endangering STDs, that can kill and/or destroy you and imperil the lives of any child you might have. WHY would you risk that for juvenile pubescent sexual popularity?

I would advise you to wake up & grow up.

Answer 7

I think because it is un natural. God says that homosexuality is an abomination to him. Do you want to take part in such sin? The bible says that a man should not lay with another man. It also speaks very clearly on the principles of marriage. A man and a woman, two become one, not three. It sounds like you have had some past issues with men, but this is not a way to resolve it. By the way, which one will take your virginity? You can only give it once, not twice. God bless you. : D

Answer 8

LOL...I can't wait to see what people say about this.

You know, if you're serious, I'll go out on a limb and say there may be some self-delusion going on here. But what do I know? I don't know you, or these two bisexual guys. If you're happy, you're happy. If you're in for a rude awakening, you're probably going to have to have that experience to learn from this. Either way, it's all good.

Answer 9

Well damn girl!! I thought i'd heard it all. There is nothing wrong with that, two hot guys who like each other too. Hell yeah....... I don't know about the kids thing, you'll have to look back at your childhood, and put yourself in thier position when they are in school, think about how people will treat them and if it will make thier lives harder or not. Just think about the kids first. Otherwise have alot of fun....

Answer 10

And I thought I had a drama filled life!!!!

You go girl -- if they make you happy, and they make each other happy and they don't care who the daddy is of all your children -- whatever.

By the way -- heterosexual men are no less or more faithful then gay or bisexual men. Just because you have been with a testosterone filled heterosexual control freak does not mean all hetero men are that way.

Answer 11

Firstly I want to reply to the trolls by saying that bisexuals aren't greedy.
Secondly is you can be bi and think women are ugly if you don't find them attractive
Thirdly my comment on what you've wrote is good luck and not to let morons and bigots get to you, if the three of you are happy then good luck to all of you
Edit: A bisexual can be faithful to one sex/partner