I've been with my boyfriend for almost two years but lately I've been feeling distant and unsure about our relationship. Early on this year I had an abortion, the child was his, but we both decided we weren't ready but ever since then its been hard to make him understand that I'm still am depressed over what happened. But I care about him a lot and I've lived with for two years its hard to see anything else past him. I don't know if i should break up and be more independent or stick through this hard time and better our relationship? is this just another trial or a stop point for me to realize I need to get my life straight? I'm not great with being independent but I don't know where to start especially if i were to leave him. I really do love him and one day I hope to have a future with him but I'm not sure if I should? ... I hope you guys can help.
2007-08-28 08:42:03 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Such a complex and important issue should be treated as such by seeing a professional counsellor, probably for a number of sessions, until a degree of clarity is attained.
The opinion of others on a Net forum based on one paragraph (or even a few) you have typed is not an answer, and will merely confuse you further (except for my own words of wisdom of course).
2007-08-28 08:53:21 · answer #1 · answered by BigBadSteve 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are the only one who can answer this question. You need to do some serious thinking and decide if he is the man you want to spend the rest of your life with. If he is, work on it. Relationships take work at the best of times and you have been through something traumatic so it puts extra pressure on. Keep in mind men tend to deal with this type of trauma differently than women do.
2007-08-28 09:02:42 · answer #2 · answered by ophirhodji 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just try spicing up your life a bit. Ask him how he feels about your relationship. If you guys thinks its impossible to heal a bad relationship, just go on with life. Good luck!
2007-08-28 08:53:10 · answer #3 · answered by ♥♥Pro♥♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I already don't like you...
ABORTION IS NOT A FORM OF BIRTH CONTROL...
I think your irresponsible...
2007-08-28 09:12:55 · answer #4 · answered by Contorted Brains 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
better it
U CAN DO IIIIIIT!!!
2007-08-28 08:48:33 · answer #5 · answered by KodaiRye 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋