ok so i like this guy hu ive been seein for 6 weeks!!!! weve kissed an so on but i sumtimes stress him out abit....he has a short temper and shouts at me and im argumentitive, its makin me feel like im the bad person here.....its makin me rlly down but i dn wana lose him....
2007-08-28 07:48:54 · 14 answers · asked by XxgirlxX 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think some important info has been left out like...why does he shout at you? Because you're argumentative?
Everyone handles their frustration in a different way, but yelling at someone is not a very good way to solve the problem. Communication needs to happen.
You should tell him that his yelling is bringing you down. Find out what is upsetting him that you're doing and see if it's something that you can fix. You shouldn't be yelled at all the time and if he doesn't see that maybe you should part ways.
2007-09-05 06:00:01 · answer #1 · answered by A 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK ask your self how much do you really like this man an you being the way you are don't sound like a good match to me him being short tempered an you very argumentative no your not a bad person you just need to learn how to not push his button all the time.
2007-08-28 14:57:42 · answer #2 · answered by C.S. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you taking all the responsibility for the negatives in the relationship? Obviously it's not all fun and games for you either, and when the relationship gets to that point, it's in real trouble. Not everything is your fault, however. Maybe the two of you are really not compatible.
2007-09-05 14:38:36 · answer #3 · answered by sustasue 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So if he has a short temper, shouts at you, and you are argumentative, I'm guessing you aren't a match. Marriages like this end up in divorce, so your relationship probably won't last, either.
2007-08-28 14:53:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes you stress him out? Sounds like an excuse to me, just so that he can behave like an idiot.
Anyone that makes you feel bad, doesn't deserve you.
Why don't you wanna lose him? Doesn't sound like you'll be missing much.
Get rid of this person, nobody needs someone like this in their life. Chin up, move on and look forward to being with someone decent who will like you for being.......you!
best of luck.
2007-08-28 14:54:54 · answer #5 · answered by Smokeabella 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he could be abusive. be careful. if he has a short temper and yells all the time, those could be warning signs of an abuser. if you feel scared while you're with him half the time, let him go. you are not the bad person here.
2007-08-28 14:54:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't automatically blame yourself because you don't want to lose him. Ask yourself if he's flippin out because of you or is he just TAKING some other personal issues OUT on you?
If a man needs a punching bag then give it to him, not yourself in it's place. You don't deserve to take on his stress and your own as well.
2007-09-05 12:37:42 · answer #7 · answered by sexynsmartxoxo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he has a real problem with communication and anger. If you know what is good for you move on. Some one once said we work real hard at a relationship which is no good for us.
2007-09-05 13:27:42 · answer #8 · answered by Grampa B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some men try to shout to make his personality actuly he think like these make his self strong and to not make any mistake with him becouse he get angry fast
2007-09-05 07:56:32 · answer #9 · answered by Guevara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you might wanna get out of that before he starts putting those ha-has on ya, only thing about it you want be laughing
2007-09-05 11:52:14 · answer #10 · answered by Change 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋