I am 25yo and i am stil a virgin. I am currently in a long term relationship but the problem is i am sensitive about the size of my d***. I have not spoken to my partner about it for fear of losing her. It is really small. I have considered enlargement pills but i am not sure they really work. Any advice would be appreciated as i cannot bear to be laughed at by my partner. I really need to confront this issue now as i have put it off long enough.
2007-08-28 05:46:53 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dave,
A small rod is really no problem.
Men with large rods can be totally bad at lovemaking - it's not being poked senseless with a guys rod that gets women electrified and screaming with joy, it's being stimulated correctly and in the right way.
Girls can have highly pleasurable orgasms by getting fingered, and fingers are small, and girls also can have orgasms by being licked and sucked - without penetration.
Big, small or medium - if it hits the right spot, if you cater to her needs, touch and rub and take time, then the size is no problem at all.
My guy fingers me (after he's kissed and sucked my boobs) and licks me underneath, then we engage in intercourse, and whether he is totally inside me or half inside - gives the same pleasure.
Also, It's better to give a smaller guy a BJ, your girl can take the entirety in her mouth and give it a great suck. It's also easier for you to give her a t1t job as well.
xx
2007-08-28 07:45:51 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest, I prefer small d***s. Simply because there's more control and the G-spot is only 2inchs up anyway! Remember, when having sex, It's not about the penetration for a woman (thats the final) it's the forplay, the touch, the incredible build up that really counts. Learn to caress every part of your partner, let her teach you what she likes. She'll love it, I promise!
Don't worry about the size, I know guys who complain because they are too big down there and their girlfriends wont sleep with them as often because it's painful to have a big one thrusting into you all the time!
2007-08-28 06:20:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your partner really cared about you she wouldn't care about your penis size. You just need to be a thoughtful, considerate lover. Plus, there are other ways to to satisfy her that don't invole your penis. I wouldn't bother with pills or enlargment, your partner should love you for who you are, and you should learn to love yourself. And I doubt those things work anyway.
Theres and old saying that seems quite relevent for this one 'its not the size of the boat but the motion in the ocean.'
2007-08-28 06:00:32 · answer #3 · answered by jembogawa 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
who says you need a big one to have a great sex life anyway?
there are loads of different things to explore in reaching an orgasm...and the fun is finding out about them all!!!
relax a little and go with the flow, im sure she respects you enough not to laugh or disrespect the size of your manhood!!
good luck...and enjoy xxx
2007-08-28 06:40:03 · answer #4 · answered by charli 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't worry, I have been told by previous and my current girlfriend that I am well endowed which sounds alright, but my girl complains that I hurt her and I aint had a decent BJ ever, size aint everything!! go for it you may be surprised.
2007-08-28 09:33:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, for being in a long term relationship well done for lasting out so long-thats rare in a guy!!
secondly put it this way 'nothing ventured nothing gained'. you could go on for years never doing 'it' and regreting it forever.
if this girl loves you it won't matter how you look. it may be that you are comparing yourself to how you imagine other guys look.
its the things we don't do that we regret more than what we did. once you make that first step you can look back and have a sigh of relief. hey and find other ways of doing it for her and it won't matter
2007-08-28 06:10:15 · answer #6 · answered by jitterbug82 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It can't be as small as you think. I think you should confront your girlfriend with the problem and if she reacts in a way that you know is wrong then you will know that you are with the wrong woman. She should be insensitive to your problem if she loves you she will confront you and help you realize that you are still a man and you still make her happy.
2007-08-28 05:59:22 · answer #7 · answered by Feelsolost 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
if she had the nerve to laugh at you, she'd be booted out the door so fast her head would spin. Not all men are graced with a large penis, but that doesn't mean that you won't totally satisfy your partner. It's more how you use it than how much you have.
Good luck!
2007-08-28 05:51:29 · answer #8 · answered by dinny's engaged!! 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
i think of its advantageous to have a guy that isnt ashamed to cry below the surprising circumstances - like its ok whilst somebody dies, or whilst hes had his coronary heart broken, of his liked dogs gets run down... yet a guy that would blubber by a weepie action picture or whilst his footie team lost - nicely which would be slightly TOO gentle for me! xx
2016-10-03 08:52:49 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she loves you she will not care how big or small it is there are other ways you can satisfy her. Try sitting her down and talking to her about it before you go all the way. She should understand.
2007-08-28 05:53:57 · answer #10 · answered by Sooner Girl 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋