Am I a Decent Girlfriend?

Question

I'm kinda a tom boy but i do wear dresses and skirts and do my hair and nails on the other hand i ride dirt bikes and weld stuff like that any ways everymorning i make my boyfriend lunch and he always has something to eat for breakfast i do the dishes and keep the house clean laundry is always clean I go to the gym after work so he has alone time and we always have BBq's and have his friends over is there anything else i can do? Do i do to much? I'm curious because no one else i know makes their boyfriend or husband lunches and stuff? Oh i also cook dinner.

Sorry Guys Being 24 Is to early for me to get married! Oh yeah Sex is good =) and i'm glad i got alot of answers they make you think.......Umm he doesnt really do alot for me....

Answer 1

Hun --- if your guy doesn't think you're a decent girlfriend then he's stupid. You're awesome! I've been told the same.

I'm girly girly. I'm the girl you could see walking down the street with a cute lil chihuahua in her purse and just got her hair and nails done. I'm the girl that loves to shop. I love fashion. My brother calls me a diva.

On the other hand...I love to get my hands dirty. I'm not afraid, even though I just paid $40 on a manicure/pedicure at the spa. I work on my own car. I love quadding, riding dirt bikes, horseback riding, hiking, going to the lake, camping under the stars (no motel 8's).

I'm very much tom boyish, I grew up with 2 older brothers. But at the same time I know how to be girly.

I cook dinner for my boyfriend, I clean the house. I love everything to be organized in its place and clean. I work out in the yard, pulling weeds. None of it bothers me.

And when he and I get our own place, I'd be happy to have a BBQ every Sunday so he can invite his friends over for to watch Football or play video games. =)

Being in a relationship is about being yourselves and pleasing each other. =)

You're good. No worries!

=)

Answer 2

You sound just like my type ;) I'm rather picky myself, but maybe that's just because you know what you want and you're not satisfied with the girls you've come across. It's okay that you haven't had a girlfriend, I've only had one "official" boyfriend and I'm almost 21. I honestly think a guy who has had 1 or 2 girlfriends or none at all is more appealing that someone who has had like... 5 or 8. It always makes me wonder why he had so many failed relationship and makes me question if he has commitment issues. As far as finding women, I don't think there really are "specific" places to find them, but my suggestion is to go out and do some of these interests you have, which you can potentially bump into someone during your day. Another suggestion - do NOT purposefully search, meaning, don't go out and do these hobbies because you want to find a girl. Do them because they make you happy, people come into your lives when you least expect it. If you ever do find a girl you find interesting, you have to build your confidence and find a way to talk to her. Just keep telling yourself, you may never see this girl ever again, why not just take a chance! Girls like to be approached by guys, it's flattering no matter what. Even if I'm not interested it always makes my day and I know most girls are the same way. If they honestly give you an attitude or are kind of bitchy, then shake it off immediately, those kind of girls are extremely low and probably have a million problems anyway. lol. Being afraid of rejection will only hurt you more in the end. You're awesome, I can already tell, like I said earlier.. you seem like my type. :P Just keep telling yourself that!

Answer 3

Trust me, you rock and he appreciates it. I don't know how most guys feel but my husband loves the fact that I can rebuild a carburetor, weld, ride dirt bikes, street bikes, quads, etc, and yet be a lady about it. I'm the type to wear a sundress while fixing the head gaskets on a truck, but I also make him lunch, and dinner (he doesn't like breakfast), and I do his laundry, clean the house, bring him a beer, and raise his son. He constantly shows his appreciation and lets me know that he loves me for being me. And every once in a while when he's really happy, he'll help me by rinsing the dishes while I wash them!

Answer 4

Geez, all that and sex too? If yes then this guy should be very happy, 'cause it sounds like he's got it made! If you're good lookin' and don't nag ll the time then you are what every hard workin' , red blooded American man deserves(at least the cool ones like me)! You're doing great, just remember that life, like food, needs a little seasoning to spice it up sometimes. In other words, don't let your relationship get bland on either of you. And there's nothing wrong with being a tomboy. Keep up the good work babe, you sound like you're one in a million. Take care,

askaman

Answer 5

You don't need to do everything for him 100% of the time. Share the household chores and make dinner together. This will make your relationship stronger. It is nice that you make him lunch every day. Make sure he is thanking you and appreciates all you do for him. You should have your friends over for BBQs too. If your friends and your boyfriends friends get along, have eveyone over at the same time. Any guy would be lucky to have you for a girlfriend. Just make sure any relationship you are in - both of you are giving 100% to the relationship or it will never last.

Answer 6

My best friend makes her boyfriend lunch every morning, as well, and does the dishes, and laundry. I personally think your boyfriend should be putting in a little more effort. However if YOU are happy in your relationship and feel things are ok as they are then theres no problem. You sound like the perfect girlfriend, doing everything and allowing him time alone and with friends! However if you arnt happy or feel he should be doing more, mention it, it wouldnt be out of line to ask that he do a little more. =)

Answer 7

I think you are doing a GREAT job! I don't know many wifes that do all that for their husband and not complain. I'm sure he appreciates you, my question is are you paying enough attention to him when you guys are together. Sure all that stuff you do is great but i know i like it when i'm getting attention from my significant other esp after i come home after a long day of work. Its great and you should try doing things together more such as laundry or work out together at least once a week. Its great and you guys bond more. But to answer your question your mom raised you right and you are doing your part in the relationship! GOOD LUCK!

Answer 8

You sound great to me. But if you are doing all this stuff to make him happy you are wasting your time. Stuff, does not make a person happy and you cannot make him happy. You have to be happy yourself and he has to be happy himself. Sure it is nice and feels good to do things for others but you need to do this unselfishly and just be yourself when you do it. Now you sound like your complaining about doing all this stuff for him and your not getting what you need from him. This could be a ring for the finger or something else who knows but if that is the case.Your question of am I a decent girlfriend? should be, How do I get him to propose to me? If that is the case tell him how you feel because as a guy we are totally clues when it comes to reading girls minds. This way at least you will know if its in the cards or not.

Answer 9

Each relationship is different because the two people in them are going to be different from the two people in another one. So don't try to compare yours to anyone else's. If what the two of you give and take in your relationship is okay with you, then that is all that matters.

To me, it seems as though things are going fine for you as they are. And on a personal note, I would like to have a girlfriend like you, just as long as you didn't mind me helping out with the chores around the household.

Answer 10

Well how old are you? There is nothing wrong with being a tomboy not at all. Why? Because we have those times where we are just tired of being so girly we want to get dirty too, have fun and all that. You do your job of being his girlfriend, but he should also clean and cook at times, its not jus the girls job. I work out i cook i clean i am also a tomboy but i dress like a prep hair down tight pants and all that, but yet i play softball i like to get dirty workout and ride bikes and just be a tough chick at times, it feels good! So yes you are a awesome Girlfriend!