We have this girl up the road from us that had invited my daughter to her birthday party. When she came to the door to drop off the invitation, she could not remember my daughter's name. When I said my daughter's name, she said " oh yea ".
This girl has invited most of the kids in our residence to attend her party.
Last year, she invited the entire 5 grade. There were over 40 kids at her party.
I've heard that she doesn't care who can come or not, that she's only interested in the gifts.
I wonder sometimes if she wants the gifts so that she can return them for the money.
She does not socialize with All the kids she invites.
My kid wants to attend but I don't think it's fair to get a gift for someone who invited her but can't remember her. Maybe getting something that is not expensive like last time.
What are your thoughts on this ??? Thanks
2007-08-28 00:36:27 · 10 answers · asked by simpleminded 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
My thoughts go 2 ways...I used to know a girl that did something like this because she was so alone and thought this was the best way to make some friends....even though she was so shy and upset that she didnt really talk to any of them....
Then there is also the thought that all they want is the gifts....and that just stinks...if I would think that getting something like a savings bond, or something that she cant use to cash in.....that would prevent her from just using if for the cash......just a thought.
2007-08-28 00:44:20 · answer #1 · answered by Reda T 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If your child wants to attend, let them. It is not that serious, who cares that she only invites the kids for gifts or whatever reason. Your child will most likely enjoy them self at the event, so why not let him or her do so. I would not involve it the complication of if the girl really likes them or not, it is not that serious.
2007-08-28 07:44:14 · answer #2 · answered by Justme 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop blaming this girl for behavior that is her parents responsibility. Of course a child wants as many presents as they can get, and of course your child wants to go to the party.
I think you are right on target, let your child pick out something inexpensive from the dollar store and go and have a good time.
2007-08-28 08:46:55 · answer #3 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get the girl a card with 5 dollars in it and let your child go have fun if she wants to.
2007-08-28 07:45:47 · answer #4 · answered by Daybreak 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I believe this is an opportunity for you to help her. You might want to let your girl go to this party and at the same time try and talk with the birthday girl's parents. You could communicate your concern, thank them for their generosity, and encourage them to help their child become more sociable. In this way, everyone wins!
2007-08-28 07:56:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If she's got friends going then let her go. You don't want to punish your daughter, she's not the one who's wrong here. I would talk to her about it though and explain why you feel that the behaviour of this little girl is unacceptable.
2007-08-28 07:52:58 · answer #6 · answered by Nic 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your child wants to attend and you can afford the gift then let them go. They doesn't know that the girl didn't know their name and there is no reason for them to know. And who knows, it may be a great party.
2007-08-28 07:44:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
I don't go to functions for people I don't know well, and neither does my daughter.
Behind every child with an unrealistic sense of entitlement is a parent who overindulged.
2007-08-28 07:45:32 · answer #8 · answered by Teresa 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I will not attend such invitations. I am 15 girl. Either my parents do not prefer me attending such parties.
2007-08-28 07:57:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Go with her!! Just get the other girl a card and see what happens!!
2007-08-28 07:43:34 · answer #10 · answered by Ben 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋