i dont know if this girl is playing me or not she always act like she is shock when i give her something i just wrote her a week ago and she came to my place twice friday night with her 4 year old son in which we didnt do nothing but we kissed twice on the lips and she came over monday in which we didnt kiss on the lips because i have a sore throat we sorta had a argument about her baby father is in jail and her current boyfriend is still living with her the place is in her name i want her too put him out before we start a relationship besides that he is hitting on her i gave her 10 bucks friday night for her son to get some mcdonalds and i gave 20 today for her gas for her car eventho she didnt ask i am getting mad cause i am wondering when are we going to be intimate and when is she going to leave this guy i warned her i am very jelous what should i do
2007-08-28 00:10:07 · 12 answers · asked by bigpipeinjersey 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
walk away my friend . walk away ,
2007-08-28 00:14:17 · answer #1 · answered by matt culling 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its not right to involve kids into any sort of adult issues. thats a big sign right there. its understandable for her to live with her ex since maybe she cant make payments and needs a roomate and maybe they were that before they started dating. depending on how long u guys been talkin, she should understand that ur whats more important now. so the most likely thing for her to do is find another roomate, maybe u, and then problem solved. but then u said ur a jealous person, u need to fix that before u get into any relationship. its ok to be jealous but know that most girls tolerate only so much jealousy. no matter how much they care they get tired of it. anyways as far as i know by what youve said, shes taking advantage of what shes got. give her less than what ur giving her now. let her come to u.
2007-08-28 00:29:55 · answer #2 · answered by JV 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have to ask about it you already know the answer. YES she is playing you big time. leave her butt alone until she is finished with the man she is living with. you dont not want to ever be someone seconds. you deserve to be first and loved and you return love. she is playing games with you. cut all ties with her until she is out of the relationship that she is in before you get hurt in every sense of the word. this is not a good situation for all involved. leave her alone with the quickness at least til she moves out of the apartment. GodBless
2007-08-28 00:20:31 · answer #3 · answered by Crystal G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pretend like you're not interested. I know its VERY HARD, but girls play 'hard to get' but it works the other way around everytime !!! just show how good you are as a person, giving money for mcdonalds etc is a really good way. But do it because your nice, not to gain points with her.
Just be happy, happy people are beautiful, and you will impress!!
2007-08-28 00:16:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well since she has son the ex may be living there for financial reasons...h cant afford apt by herself.BY never the less i think you should move on you have to look out for whats best for you.This situation sounds a mess!!
You sound like the extra money bank when she runs out.
Has she given you a reason why the hex is still there?
if its no problem to her why can she not invite you over when hes there?if its innocent and all....so called friendship...
he honestly needs to move on though and i would give her one week to have him out and if he isnt out move on!!
2007-08-28 00:18:37 · answer #5 · answered by hugsandhissyfits 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, i think you'r being played.
In my option, you are her "Piggy Bank" and all she has to do to unlock it , is a few kisses. Bring her son to your home, would instantly stop any intimate moments.
But It's my option, so don't do anything rash! Maybe her boyfriend won't accept her break-up or its something more complicated
2007-08-28 00:19:51 · answer #6 · answered by zsdreamersz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call her and tell her that you do not intend to see her anymore. Tell her that you would like to get back with her, but you are not going to play second fiddle to the ex. Tell her to give you a call when he is gone. Do not call her back. If she really cares about you, she will put him out and call you back!!!
2007-08-28 00:16:39 · answer #7 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you been with her longer than 5 months sit her down and say HEY look it i cant go on like this your ex boyfriend has to go or i'm out....Plus she already has baggage so if ur not falling say BYE
2007-08-28 00:18:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you serious man??!! this girl is still living with her "ex"boyfriend and shes coming over with her kid kissing you and taking money. drop her!!!!! fast!!
2007-08-28 00:20:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like shes using you!!!
but go by your heart
2007-08-28 00:15:46 · answer #10 · answered by alya-nika 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is trying to make you her sugar daddy it seems.
2007-08-28 00:14:44 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋