Should I stop saying "Hi" to her?

Question

Hi I work @ a family restaurant & I've been working there for 3 yrs already as a host. Well this co-worker her name is Veronica & I use to work with her when she was a host. Now she is a server. We both do get along & I did enjoy working with her. One day, @ a co-worker friend party she got drunk. When I was trying giving her a cup of water to stay silver & it happen so fast she kiss me twice. I just give her the water & I left to the patio with all my co-worker friends.

5 days later after the party, I saw her again @ work & she does not say hi to me when we past buy each other. If I say hi to her, of course she say hi back to me. She never say hi to me first.

I also try to talk to her & I just give up. I do feel my gut that she has so social with me or like she is avoiding me too. I do not have feeling for her & I like her. I do not date co-worker either.

So then I just stop saying hi to her. What do you say about this? Should I stop saying Hi to her? & should I stop being nice?

Answer 1

you Did nothing wrong so just be your self around her and if it's in you to say hi do it but she's probably embarrassed for what happened I'm sure she will get over it and everything will be back to normal

Answer 2

I don't think you should stop saying hi or being nice - that might possibly make things worse. I'm not a relationship expert, but, I'm sure that this girl must be very embarrassed.

Imagine if the roles were reversed... and you were her. I know that if I was drunk and I spontaneously kissed a guy in front of all my co-workers and then the guy walked off afterwards, I would feel so akward to show my face to him again and avoid him at any cost.

It becomes more difficult when you have worked so closely with the person for such a long period of time and still have to see that person nearly every day! I'm sure this girl is trying everything to forget about what happened and maybe thinks that by avoiding you and not being so communicative with you than she previously was, that the encounter she had with you will disappear. Then, just when she thought she got over it, the next day you say hi to her and she remembers that night all over again...

Maybe she secretly thinks that after what happened you have a different impression of her and see her in a different light.

Remember, most girls (including me) have a tendency to analyze EVERYTHING! - especially when it comes to guys. What seems like nothing to you, could mean so much more to her.

Keep talking to her, say hi and put her mind at ease and soon she will realise she had nothing to worry about in the first place.

Answer 3

I don't think you can really tell your boss, or anyone for that matter, what they can or can't say. Maybe try saying it back to her sometime in a joking manner. Like you know she says it a lot and you're sort of being *playfully* sarcastic with it. Like if she asks you a question or asks you to do something, say "You betcha!" and look at her and smile. If that fails, tell her that Sarah Palin is an idiot and your opinion towards your boss drops every time she associates with Palin....haha

Answer 4

I think she is not ignoring you but regret on his act what she with you in that party. She may not have or feeling courage to face you after that incident. One thing is sure she like you.
But you have to communicate with her

Answer 5

Grow up surely you can work out what to do with this girl who could only stand to kiss you when she was drunk one wonders just what you look or smell like ~~

Answer 6

Just ignore her. No use stressing over something silly like that. If she decides to say hi back then say hi to her.

Answer 7

i think you should just act like nothing really.....strange happened. like, say hi to her like you normally would, but you don't have to do it all the time everytime. but it's important to stay friendly. you never know what she may be thinking, so next time you have the chance to talk to her alone, you can ask/hint to her if shes avoiding you or not.

Answer 8

I don't think you should stop saying hi. Go on and say hi but ignore her behavior until she decides to come to you and tell you what's her problem.

Answer 9

What does your Heart tell you? Does she love you or is she just a "selfish co-worker", who uses you to get what she wants? Just be yourself! If she doesn't like it, then that is her problem. You can't please everybody!!

Answer 10

i say stop saying hi to her for a week or so and see how she reacts. she will probably come at you like why dot u ever say hi to me? then u say how come u never say hi to me?