I had a long time friend whom I ended up having a relationship with. But after a week he confessed that he and his ex gf had their relationship continued before we had ours. It really breaks my heart but I manage to break-up with him. He never likes the idea for according to him he loves me better than his ex. I suggested that it is better for us to be friends again (from where we had started). I really try to hide my feelings but I know its not working out. When he started to show affections I try my best to ignore it but it hurts me twice when I feel that his been hurt more. A girl-friend told me that a guy never breaks up with a girl and just waited for the girl to breaks-up with him.Is that true?Is it good for us to remain as friends?
2007-08-27 21:02:17 · 7 answers · asked by jen_24 s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i suggest you to move on. i have similar past experience and it took me 3 awful months to move on.we had a *close to romance* friendship. **he had this gf also*** finally i decided it is not going anywhere and i end it. it is not going anywhere if your so called boyfriend is two timing you. pls, there are more choices outside. in order to move on, you will have to discipline yourself not to have any contact with him..maintain for 1 month or so and slowly you can live without him.*if he contact you, ignore*i know its abit hard for you at first. but endure!! you don wan to suffer longer than 3 months like i do right? all the best and keep me update.=)
2007-08-27 21:23:42 · answer #1 · answered by Shalyn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its kinda true for guys to make the girl break-up first because their just waiting for you to realize that your relationship wont work out and that they dont want to hurt you.
If you really like him then you should tell him or least say what you feel about him still having feelings for you. He has feelings for you and he will understand what you think about it and he should.
Also, still being his friend might a problem because of what you two went through with. So if you want to, take time off of him. See if can really live a day without him.
2007-08-27 21:18:27 · answer #2 · answered by Lolligob5 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
surely i pull that total remail buddy element it does not paintings. U want time to heal and get urself together and while ur understand ur greater suitable u could be acquaintances lower back. Hun a guy does not wait to interrupt up with u provided that they seem to be a push over and those are the boys that could do something to get a gf yet ur x had 2 so as this is not the case. provide urself some area to heal and u understand come again on ur ft and each thing would be fantastic... do no longer prepare that guy any thoughts
2016-10-09 09:13:57 · answer #3 · answered by md.tosheeb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He just wants to be able to keep you on the side. If he really loved you more, he would break up with her!!! He is not acting like a good friend or good bf. He is cheating on his gf, what will he do to you?
2007-08-27 21:09:19 · answer #4 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ooo that's so hard! No they can break up witha girl definilty they aren't very good at it. They will usually just stop calling her, which makes the break up that much harder for the girl, and than she will want him even more than before even if she was thinking of calling it off.
If he loves you he can do the right thing.
2007-08-27 21:10:08 · answer #5 · answered by duuh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good.
2007-08-27 21:08:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him decide which one of you he wants to stay in his life....
(i think that would be you anyway!)
2007-08-27 21:11:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋