I think its an excuse and a way of escaping responsibility, but i frequently blame god for toying with my life and making it bad. But then, it's just my fault. Im so lousy at everything, its so overwhelming. I feel like i have ADHD or depression even though ive never been diagnosed(never went to doctor asking actually). Im such a coward, and i blame some of it on god and on myself.
Exist or not, i wish i could get in a decent conversation with god. I do consider him responsible for every situation im in. Its just i don't know what to do that makes me feel bad. Complain sure aint done any good either.
Im non religious however...Dont have a religion of any kind. I also dont believe in God, but my good and bad luck that happens in times making it seem like it wasnt a coincidence tells me otherwise.
2007-08-27 19:02:20 · 14 answers · asked by JN 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
The bad things that come our way are from our own free choice. Those things do not come from God. You have said that those bad things were your fault, that you're so lousy at everything. Yet you blame God for it although you know Him not personally. I want you to know that I had blamed God few years back when I was in my darkest hour of my life. I said
bad things against Him eventhough I knew they were all my fault. But later, I have discovered that God had used those bad things I have done to wake me up spiritually and bring me closer to Him. What I did was just pray and repent which I have never done before. I suddenly felt inner peace and joy in my heart, mind and soul. And I have discovered that moment there was really a living God and He was so good. He loves me so much. My brother, all you need to do is pray.
Open your heart to God. Tell Him what you feel about Him and about yourself. I tell you you'll find Him if you search Him with all your heart thru prayer. He loves you so much. God bless you...
2007-08-28 19:10:17 · answer #1 · answered by Avalon99 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you do not believe in God, then God can not be the cause of any ill fortune in your life. If you do believe that coincidence is not at the root of certain issues, then perhaps God is just trying to get your attention. On the other hand, the fallen angels, or demons as they are generally called may just be may be having some fun with you, at your expense. If you really want to know God better, then pray, ask Him, believing that He will answer you, to meet you in your need to understand. He can, and will answer you, if that is what you want.
For myself, I do feel, sometimes, that what I am enduring is not fair, or why must I endure a certain thing. Yet I also know that God is in absolute control and everything will work out to my best good given time to let everything work out.
2007-08-28 02:14:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm not going to lie and say that I have never asked God why?
But I do not blame him.....he has his reasons for everything!
Not to be rude or anything, but how can you blame God for things that go wrong in your life, but you don't believe in him?
How is this possible? You need to pick one. Either believe and worship the one true God and blame him, even though you shouldn't blame him, or don't believe and blame yourself. But I rather you pick the first one, and just come to terms with God, and realize that you have to help yourself first and believe in him before God will fully help you and bless you! But sometimes even if you do all of this, God may still decide to make something happen in your life that you do not fully understand.
2007-08-28 02:16:05 · answer #3 · answered by Mrs. CT 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Many times we want to blame somebody for our misfortune, especially God. God doesn't punish, but his judgment will come soon. Our choices in life is what we create for ourselves and when we are not in Spirit with the Holy Spirit our life's seem lifeless. God is good and so is life when you ask God into your life. If you want to believe in God just talk to him and ask him to enlighten you with his mercy. When you walk with Him you will see the differences in your life for the better. God Bless You and Be with You. God is Love. You don't have to have a religion to have God in your life.
2007-08-28 02:30:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is useless and stupid thing to blame God. I'm so ashamed to confess that I did it when I had a little faith in Him. Only when I began understand what He wants from me, His blessings began to come to me. I know for sure that if I had not known God, my life would be much worse or very very pitiful.
2007-08-28 02:16:24 · answer #5 · answered by georsh50 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Good question:) When you fail to accomplish something too often, you will tend to blame God:( We can't deny the fact that sometimes, they are things we can't control in our hands. However, we still need to do our best, or else, we lose the meaning of living:)
2007-09-01 00:56:36 · answer #6 · answered by kyochan19792002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HOW could God cause youir troubles if you DO NOT believe in Him????
You are very confused. God is your ONLY source of salvation. NEVER blame HIM for anything.
Rom 10:17 So then faith [cometh] by hearing, and hearing by the word of God.
2007-08-28 02:09:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
No I prefer to spent my time on real possibilities and causes.
Life is full of bad things but only real answers can actually help so don't go pushing virgins into the proverbial vulcano .If you are dying of thirst in the desert only water will quench your thirst not mirages .
2007-08-28 02:08:53 · answer #8 · answered by dogpatch USA 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
No, I don't. I know His character so well, it would never occur to me to blame Him for anything. He is the perfection of all good things.
I'm sorry you are having troubles. Please remember that it is only through Jesus Christ we can approach God. That may be why you are feeling so frustrated. I pray that you take the time to consider this, and perhaps pick up the bible and read some of the Psalms. They are comforting and you will hear His voice there.
2007-08-28 02:08:15 · answer #9 · answered by Esther 7 · 3⤊ 2⤋
You've taken the first step towards understanding how God works....he lets you take your own steps. There are two paths in front of you. The smooth, straight one leads to God's arms. The other is twisted and rough, and hides its true nature.
Go to God.....this time, it really is that easy. He'll help you find the way.
2007-08-28 02:09:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 2⤋