I'm 42 and have no love life can someone help me.?

Answer 1

Heh, I have a friend :D

Answer 2

Much of it boils down to self improvement. I have identified 6 such areas in which we can become more desirable to the opposite sex. Many things will fall into these categories or are closely related to them:

1) Money. Make more of it. For women, money = security.

2) Charm. This would be good manners, gentlemanliness,
sense of humor, etc.

3) Intelligence. Be knowledgeble about some things and able
to converse in an interesting way.

4) Looks. It is difficult to change our face but exercise can do
a lot for our body.

5) Integrity. You are a moral person. You basically do good
and live by the golden rule.

6) Compatibility. This can mean many things such as both of
you are free of diseases such as AIDS and limit your
dating to those without AIDS. But you will have a lot of
compatibility with someone if you share similar values.

Aside from just becoming a better person, get ahold of some good dating books. There are plenty to choose from at Amazon.com and you will be amazed at how quickly you can crack the dating "code". You will kick yourself for not having read some of these books sooner.

In my experience, this type of common sense approach to dating works best.

Hope this helps!

Answer 3

Get a book called "i am 42 and have no life"

Answer 4

It depends. Do you want a love life, or do you just feel left out because everyone else has one? If you actually want a love life, then get out and do some of the things you love to do. This way you will meet someone who does the same things as you and has something in common with you. Good for conversations. If you're just feeling left out, then busy yourself with your friends, family and activities. Eventually the one for you will come your way.

Answer 5

Ask someone of the opposite sex whom you trust to honestly assess you and why they think you don't have a love life. Be prepared for some brutal answers.

Love yourself. Love life. Get involved in activities outside of yourself. Love will come when it comes. In the meantime, try more to be somebody than to find somebody.

Love will come when it comes.

Answer 6

Get out and meet people! And I'm not saying get out there and try to find someone to be with, I'm saying, meet friends. The more people you know as friends, the more likely they are to introduce you to a potential mate. If you spend your time searching for someone, it's unlikely that you will find them. Let women come to you. I'm not saying completely stay away from them, just make friends for now.

Clubs, bars, libraries, coffee shops, work...there's always people! Just gotta meet them first!

Answer 7

You better hurry up because you know what they call a 50 year old bacholor..lonely. Hook up with people on chat lines or in clubs, go out on dates, show them what your made of, show up with flowers and show them that you can be manly and sweet at the same time.

Answer 8

Sure thing buddy.
Here's the best book of information you can get.

Make sure you read this book and pay attention to the body language signs that women put off.

All women give signs of interest, go after the one's who give you the green light.

Answer 9

Tell us some things about you so we may assist you. Are you nice? Are you mean? Are you a giver? Are you a taker? Do you give to worthy causes? Do you hoard your money? Do you smile a lot? Do you frown a lot? Do you look up? Do you look down? See what I mean? We need some info to help you.

Answer 10

You're an exception. Most men complain of too much love life.

Answer 11

Plain and simple friend... Buy this book "How to succeed with women." You'll have a love universe when your finished reading and abide by its lessons. You'l lbe amazed.