please help!
2007-08-27 16:20:43 · 16 answers · asked by Giggle Bear 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
You may not be able to change his thinking or his attitude. That might take a major change in his personal world view. If he is truely that arrogant, then only a major humbling event would help him wake up to himself.
For your own sake, it sounds like you need to honestly express your feelings on how he acts towards and around you. If he says or does something you don't appreciate, tell him. Only honest communication will help you at all.
It also sounds like you need a new boyfriend!
2007-08-27 16:34:15 · answer #1 · answered by MamaBear 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
We can never change another person or their behavior, we can only decide how we are going to respond to it and control our own behavior.
Some womanly advice is to give it some time and space, maybe he'll grow out of it. But what you can't do is persuade him to be who you want him to be.
Maybe there is a market among women for his kind of personality, but you are not in the market for it. So move on, to something you do want.
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2007-08-27 23:28:27 · answer #2 · answered by LadyB!™ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, from what ive heard about your bf, if he is Gods gift to women, it would indicate that God doesnt like women very much, and im pretty sure that God likes women a lot......
2007-08-28 10:29:45 · answer #3 · answered by deva 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the bible says in Acts 10:34
Then Peter opened his mouth, and said, Of a truth I perceive that God is no respecter of persons
2007-08-27 23:28:37 · answer #4 · answered by josephgarcia85 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
explain to him there are no gods , so that immediatly disqualifies him as gods gift , then bust his ego by tellling him you are really attracted to his best friend .
2007-08-27 23:29:49 · answer #5 · answered by nietzsches_right 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LEAVE HIM AND ASK GOD TO HELP YOU FIND A TRUE MAN WHO WILL LOVE YOU AND ONLY YOU....TRUST IN GOD FOR HE WILL ANSWER YOUR PRAYERS, IF A MAN DONT LOVE JESUS CHRIST, AND LIVE FOR CHRIST HE WONT LOVE .YOU ARE A BLESSING TO THE MAN THAT GOD CREATED YOU FOR..AND WHEN YOU FIND HIM PUT GOD FIRST, AND HE WILL BLESS YOUR MARRIAGE...THAN YOU AND YOUR HUSBAND WILL COMPLETE EACH OTHER....PRAISE GOD HE LOVES YOU AND HE WANTS YOU TO BE HAPPY...
2007-08-27 23:30:27 · answer #6 · answered by deezee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him for another guy. That will teach him a good lesson.
2007-08-28 00:42:47 · answer #7 · answered by z_jepoh 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Start dating someone else. Unless you believe it too.
2007-08-27 23:28:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just barely qualified this question for R&S, huh?
2007-08-27 23:24:19 · answer #9 · answered by CJ 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
ya, i would break up with him. sounds like a conceited bastard
2007-08-27 23:26:22 · answer #10 · answered by xzc426 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋