2007-08-27 13:44:14 · 12 answers · asked by maq_johncarr 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
He died last March 2006 a victim of a cellphone hold up, he was shot twice his only 17 yrs old that time. I love missed him so much his my eldest and supposedly the only child till his little brother came. From that incident everything change in me. I never had peace and happiness in my heart I dont even know how to appreciate things anymore... I cant even go to shops and food shops that may remind me of him.
I was thinking if i would be given a chance to speak w/ him and know that his okay now, then maybe...... things will be back in place to were it should be....
2007-08-27 14:40:49 · update #1
I'm sorry for your loss :(
It's not possible though, at least not in this life. Anyone who claims they can help you wants your money and nothing else.
2007-08-27 13:52:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many people believe that contact with the dead is possible, specifically those of wiccan or pagan religions or simply new age beliefs. Thos people would be the right ones to seek out for help, using perhaps a simple google search as a place to start. BE CAREFUL, however, because there are large numbers of people who are waiting to prey on the grieving and unknowing.
Also, I would give careful consideration to your motivation for this contact. It will not bring your son back, it may not be successful, and it might make your process if healing from the loss that much more difficult.
2007-08-27 13:49:55 · answer #2 · answered by Rayvn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way a human being can speak to a dead person is through your thoughts. I still speak to my little dog who died four years ago. It helps me feel close to her. If this is becoming an obsession then you had better see a psychiatrist or psychologist to discuss your problem. Once a person is dead that's it. Actual conversation is of course out of the question and you must accept this otherwise you can become extremely ill. Don't discuss this with your family doctor because all he/she will do is give you pills. They do not have the time to discuss situations like yours with their patients.
2007-08-27 23:08:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you hearing his voice respond to you, are you looking to see someone who claims they can talk to him, or are you asking if it's ok to talk to him?
My brother passed away last summer and I talk to him all the time. In the car, when I'm angry, or when I accidently pick up the phone in an attempt to call him.
Can someone else talk to him? I battled this as well. I went to see John Edwards and I got nothing. I think it is pretty normal to want to go to great lengths to want to speak with someone you have lost, however, I agree that there are MANY out there willing to prey on the grief of others to make a buck. Be careful, but do what you've got to do to put your self at ease.
Finally, are you talking and he is responding? You may want some grief counseling. Maybe you are just having vivid dreams or have very wishful thinking. Maybe you can actually talk with him, who am I to say you can't? Either way, talk with someone professional. Or, speak with others who have suffered a similar loss to yours.
I am so sorry for the loss of your son and I can't imagine the pain you are going through. I can honestly tell you that time helps. I doesn't heal, but it does help. Hang in there. Find people to talk to.
2007-08-27 13:54:30 · answer #4 · answered by Jaye Vinson 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It would depend on your beliefs and what brings peace to you. If you choose to see some one who claims to be able to talk to the dead, just be careful not to be taken by frauds. Go to someone who is recommended. I believe we all have the ability - we can speak to whom ever we want when ever we want. We may not receive answers in the conventional way, but you will know in your heart that they hear you and are with you.
Me, personally, have had many experiences in my life. I am a believer. I thought everyone experienced what I did until I started school and realized what I saw and heard was not the"norm." So follow your heart.
2007-08-27 13:54:07 · answer #5 · answered by emtd65 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The mental health institution has bereavement support groups and staff.
You may also be suffering from depression because of your loss and you should see your family doctor. There are meds available to help with depression.
Hang in there.
2007-08-27 14:06:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I believe it is extremely common after the loss of a loved one to talk to them.
Both my wife and I have experienced this with our parents.
But at some point you need to focus on the living again.
A religious or grief counselor or therapist can be called.
http://themeaningisyou.com
2007-08-27 13:56:17 · answer #7 · answered by HJG 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately I don't believe so. I think these people who claim to channel the dead are just frauds out for a buck or entertainment.
2007-08-27 13:48:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The only time the dead speak to you is in dreams, so try and think of him before you go to bed
2007-08-27 13:53:38 · answer #9 · answered by Tiana 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Some people believe it is possible. You would need to talk to a psychic (not sure about the spelling). You know, one of those fortune teller types.
2007-08-27 13:52:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋