Alrigthy guys, we need your answers. Are guys attratcted to hotty bodies or sweet spirits? Details PLEASE!!!!
2007-08-27 13:39:10 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Personality (sweet spirits) is the most important essence you can look for in a girl...I'd would really love her, if she's humerous so when we would have a conversation, she would know that we are having fun talking to one another. She would also have to be communicative, if I wanted share my life stories & other important matters with her, I would have to know that she is listening carefully to my words & also would like to share her stories with me & also be able to understand one another in the process. She's should also be interesting and be enaging more in socializing, etc so that she can reveal more about what type of person she is. Furthermore I would want her to be kind & gentle so I would be able to feel secure around her cuz kindness always builts trust. If I feel she has touched me in some way, it will only be becuz she has touched my heart some way & that would build my feelings more for her. She also would not have to be the most glamourous girl in school provided she can show me who she is an indvisiual and what makes her look different or special compared to the rest. I believe every girl is unique cuz not everyone thinks & acts the same way, so that would be a very important personality trait to look at. Lastly, personality wise (not a necessary requirement) I would really enjoy her if she would a bit smart. This is not to say, she the most talented student in school but that she thinks properly in terms of making decisions.
& of course in terms of looks, I'd prefer personality more cuz it covers a wider range of characteristics you must have in a girl. But yea likewise for an answer I should say, normal. Doesn't need to have the best posture but can have a nice enough body that may appeal to guys. Preferebly a bit slender and tall with lovely eyes & nice hair. An adequate beauty in her smile is what I would look for cuz, thats what sparks a relationship or love... I still reckon personality appeals more rather than body cuz it covers a wider range of who the person actually is...
Hope this helps...
2007-08-27 14:13:25 · answer #1 · answered by Prince 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweet spirits, I like how you put that. A body is just a shell for the most beautiful creatures inside or the most hideous succubus. Internal beauty is the most important thing.
2007-08-27 20:46:17 · answer #2 · answered by TjHookr 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Bit of both, some attractive qualities are going to initially lure us in, but sweet spirits (some of the time, too much innocence can be irritating) will keep us around.
At least thats the theroy :)
2007-08-27 20:45:35 · answer #3 · answered by ChAtMaN 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Spirits??? What the heck? Anyway, it's a balance. Sure there's the physical attraction. But there needs to be a great personality, too.
2007-08-27 20:45:30 · answer #4 · answered by go2bermuda 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hotty bodies are nice but there is nothing more attractive then a sweet girl with good morals .
2007-08-27 20:52:43 · answer #5 · answered by goodguyhals 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls with bilateral symmetry and a waist to hip ratio of 0.7 or less. Were you hoping to hear something different?
Go to any school dance or social event where boys and girls go to meet, stand back and observe. What you will see is that everyone, boys and girls, without exception, will act as if looks is the ONLY thing.
2007-08-27 20:51:40 · answer #6 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i cant answer for all of us but personally i like a girl who is open about who she is, it relly aggrivates me when women either lie about specific details in their life or simply dont tell you. Looks are of course a factor but in my case you dont have to look like Paris Hilton to get my attention, mind you i think paris is not at all attractive and in no way rubs my buddha.
Individuality is a key factor and a big attraction for me, when i meet the person for me i think i will know as will you and you should'nt have to make an effort for someone to be attracted to you if they are truly attracted to you its because of the personality you display. i hope this answers your question, feel free to contact me :)
2007-08-27 20:51:49 · answer #7 · answered by sendmemail_13 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BOTH
Someone who is just a pal and no sexiness or chemistry is a mate.
Somone who is sexy but a total ***** is unlikly to be more then a drunken one night stand and regretted.
likeiwse a hooker is sex bu no continuing.
A girlfriend or somone you want as one is likly to be part best mates who you want to be close with. and somone you find attractive who has nice fun bits
Who is fun to be with but you want to llok at her boobs and feel then and tiuch her all over and her to touch you and do lots of kissing and sex stuff
2007-08-27 20:54:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The Three i look for, in no particular order:
Physical Attraction
Spiritual attraction
Emotional Attraction
Basically, if one exists, i persue to see if all 3 are there! If so, WHOO-HOO!
2007-08-27 20:44:42 · answer #9 · answered by Christopher A 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would go spirtits since looks fade, if im with someone that makes me laugh and i have a good time with then her spirit will become atractive to me and i wont care about anything else because it will be her im attracted too.
2007-08-27 20:51:14 · answer #10 · answered by one_lost_backpacker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋