omg most of the guys in school like me and i just heard my friends friend said i am not that hot! he told people 'i'm not that hot'. I thought he was cute too! What do I do? I was prom queen and everyone likes me but he said i'm not that hot!!
2007-08-27 12:30:37 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Okay....you have to realize if you showed a picture of the current most popular "hottie of the moment" to 100 guys , 40 of those guys won't think she's hot at all. And none of those guys are wrong; why? Because opinions (and tastes) vary from person to person, and there's nothing wrong with that.We don't have any real control over how we end up looking anyway, it's all luck of the draw. (It works the same way for you ladies, too when assessing guys' looks). There's nothing you need to "do"....some guy will be totally indifferent to you, and still another guy will think you're the most beautiful girl in the world. It all balances out. BUT...working on who you are on the inside shows in how you treat people on the outside. That tends to make you more "beautiful" to a wider base of people. (That's something worthwhile that you can do something about...)
2007-08-27 13:15:44 · answer #1 · answered by Captain S 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you had really strong feelings for him I can see it would hurt, but if he's just some guy maybe you should work on developing other things that make you feel good about yourself, so that it doesn't upset you when some people don't think you're hot. If you were prom queen and this is the first time you've ever heard this you are either really sheltered, really hot, or people around you are generally nice.
No matter how hot you are there is going to be someone out there who has different taste and doesn't think you are hot.
2007-08-27 19:43:25 · answer #2 · answered by randomtxt 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
geez.. Get over yourself. Get out of the mirror and read the writing on the wall. Forget hot, think shallow.. That is soooo NOT hot!!
2007-08-27 19:43:51 · answer #3 · answered by hurting 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
woot. how old are you?!
just cause you're prom queen and popular at school doesn't mean everyone has to like you or find you hot.
people have different tastes. you'll just have to get over it and move on with your life.
2007-08-27 19:36:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Everybody hatin'!!!! Ignore them. He wants you...he saying that to knock off some of the competition. Do some reverse psychology on his azz....Tell him you heard him tell your friends you are not that hot, but you think he is HOT, watch how fast his childish ways change, then say, psyche, ***hole
2007-08-27 19:40:24 · answer #5 · answered by ♥♥JDub♥♥ 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he might just be saying that cause he does think your hot.
but who knows, not every guy is going to think you are hot.
2007-08-27 19:40:48 · answer #6 · answered by hannah l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have always had the belief that no matter what you look like, everybody is sexy to somebody, somewhere. I guess by that same token, everybody is unattractive to somebody, somewhere.
2007-08-27 19:37:30 · answer #7 · answered by Christopher C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not everyone is going to think you are hot....get over yourself!
2007-08-27 19:34:44 · answer #8 · answered by Lonely Turkey 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he just want to get your attention and he succeed. keep it cool, it's one opinion against... hundreds?
2007-08-27 19:46:36 · answer #9 · answered by Jonet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
conceited much?
dont think about what other people say about you .
2007-08-27 19:35:19 · answer #10 · answered by CoachAutumn 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋