(Or anywhere for that matter???) Are you willing to take the chance? Do you take that chance? If not, are you overly concerned about rejection? Or do you just pass her by because you don't think she's worth your time? Meaning, you think she probably gets enough attention as it is, so why bother giving her your attention as well. Do you know what I mean?
2007-08-27 12:30:15 · 21 answers · asked by milly 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
odds are great that i will, and more times then not, i leave wit her, attitude and confidence will take you along way, not cockyness or conciededness, its all in the smile!
2007-08-27 12:40:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is extremely difficult to approach a beautiful woman wherever you go and I will tell you why.
First of all, beautiful women constantly get hit on all the time by men. After a while, when a guy says, "Hi, my name is ____", or "How are you", the woman tends to get creeped out. It's perfectly natural. I'm a guy and if some stranger approached my out of nowhere like that I would think: "What the F**k is wrong with this person. So obviously when a guy approaches her she will have her guard up and know that she is being hit on.
Second, most guys fear rejection. It's hard to ask for something and not get it, but it's 100% tougher to ask the woman of your dreams out only to get shot down. It's not only the rejection part but most men feel a certain type of HUMILIATION when being rejected.
So yes most men are intimidated by beautiful women and are at times overly concerned with rejection.
2007-08-27 12:40:38 · answer #2 · answered by g-money 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
For me? Slim to none.
When I was single, I lacked confidence big time, and you hit the nail right on the head when you said about 'she probably gets enough attention as it is'
Thats how I think most guys would act and there's no avoiding that thought for them.
The only reason I'm with my girlfriend is because even though she was with a bunch of lads already and I knew my chances were slim, I just thought, whats the worst that could happen? She says no? So i got chatting to her, and have never regretted it because shes my special girl.
But yea unless a guy is over confident, then they will most likely not approach 'the hottest woman'
2007-08-27 12:40:12 · answer #3 · answered by timbobojob 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everything you said is true with some guys. Lately I'm not really caring as much. You just have to say screw it and go up right away before you start over thinking it and getting nervous. You better have something clever and different to say though, because shes probably been hit on like 10 times already that night.
2007-08-27 12:36:02 · answer #4 · answered by JohnB 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Although I am not a guy, may I answer this question?
My friend who is a guy told me once, he would not ever, ever ask a girl out that he met at the club. Because they are just a club girl and do not deserve to be asked out. Girls from club and bar ask guys out and if the guy has not been laid for a week, single, they take her - ugly or not ugly. It's a free meal for them, guys knows these girls that's always hanging out at the club/bar are not for keeps but very good in bed because they are lonely and desperate.
2007-08-27 12:38:27 · answer #5 · answered by earth angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ill totally pass up the hottest chick in the bar, for 2 reasons.
1) more often then not she KNOWS she is the hottest, meaning she is likely to be snobbie and will sell herself much higher then she is actually worth
2) Chances are she isnt going to be down to earth sort of girl and I cant stand those high maintanance types, regardless of how much they thing they are gods gift to men.
2007-08-27 12:36:01 · answer #6 · answered by ChAtMaN 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I walk up to any female in the bar, that have caught my eye, and ask them if they would like to dance, if they do that is great, if not that is good also. A lot of men feel intimidated by fine looking women, but look at it like this, how long did it take them to get ready and look like that before they got to the bar.
2007-08-27 12:38:18 · answer #7 · answered by psycho magnet 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, I have found that the most pretty women are mostly the ones that want you too talk to them. You know in about 10 seconds what kind of person she is then either keep it going or move on.
2007-08-27 12:42:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I usually pass them by. I figure they get enough attention, and hate the feeling of being rejected.
2007-08-27 12:36:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I guess most people wouldn't cos they'd assume they didn't have a chance with her. Nothing to do with thinking they already get approached a lot I wouldn't have thought.
I don't have that problem though cos I'm completely stunning :)
... jk
2007-08-27 12:36:06 · answer #10 · answered by DanielG 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the chance of me doing that is slim to none but i'm somewhat shy...having said that i have a friend who is very attractive and well endowed...she told me that not very many men approach her in clubs and it's because they dont' feel like they have a shot with her...they figure why waste their time...the bottom line is i guess you should always approach them the worst they could do is say no thanks....
2007-08-27 12:36:11 · answer #11 · answered by Cupcakes Moosey! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋