we are together for 2 months now and i am often the one who call her and make plans to see each other. i feel she think she dont need to make any effort to talk to me or see me cause i will do the work, should i stop this and let her call me and, im getting a little tired of this cause i want to feel she want to talk to me and see me. i dont want her to take me for granted. any advice? girls: if the guy calls you all the time, do you get bored at some point?
2007-08-27 12:25:43 · 3 answers · asked by thunder217 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the general rule is the one who isn't making the effort in the relationship is the likely one to break it off because they're not interested.
maybe you're calling her too much. how much do you call her? personally, i feel harrassed after too many calls. try calling only once a week if you can't control yourself.
if i were in your position, i'd play the game and not call her for ages to see if she makes the move. you got to treat them mean to keep them keen. that doesn't mean hit them. it means pretend you're not interested.
you see, some people only find a relationship fun when they have to chase that person. once they have them, they get bored. so you got to do that until you're absolutely sure she's in love with you. that's the way i play it XP i've never had my heart broken and i follow that rule religiously. one day i'm going to get it though.
2007-08-27 12:33:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
both, i guess. if she needs to talk to you about something, she will call you. but it seems she can't find something to talk about with you. what i'm saying is, she might not be too interested with you. if i like the guy, i'll be calling most of the time just to hear his voice. get it?
2007-08-27 20:05:03 · answer #2 · answered by Jonet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ahhh i call my lady everytime i can and will not stop doing it --- if she gets tired of it she will tell me of that i am sure
2007-08-27 19:31:30 · answer #3 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋