I thought that it was the maid of honors responsability until I was asked. But on top of that I cannot even attend.
2007-08-27 10:30:24 · 6 answers · asked by persia 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
If you're asked, simply say "I'm sorry, I can't attend the shower. I hope you all have a wonderful time, though!"
Notice that you didn't actually say "NO, because..." You just answered the request with a statement. It's less grating, but you end it on a high note.
2007-08-28 04:16:35 · answer #1 · answered by Bill 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The maid of honor is usually responsible for the costs of the shower. If you are not attending I would not pay for anything at all. You should send a gift to the bride but other then that you should not have to pay for anything else.
2007-08-31 09:40:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think of the maid of honour is in charge yet i might of concept the bridesmaids all chucked in to help. I additionally might of expected that the bridesmaids may be in attendance too. truthfully in case you had a prior engagement the maid of honour ought to have made the bathe at a time while all ought to attend.
2016-10-17 03:37:40 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Traditionally it's the MOH's responsibility but sometime's brides or other BM's pitch in. If the bride asked you, remind her that the MOH is in charge. If the MOH asked you, then you can refuse if you want. It would be nice to help pay, but you aren't required to if money is tight. If she's going way over the top and wants money for that, suggest toning it down to something she can afford.
2007-08-27 11:32:49 · answer #4 · answered by iheartbayley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should help out even though you cannot attend.
2007-08-27 13:31:16 · answer #5 · answered by Terri 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its not your place to do that,i believe its the brides responability to pay for that not anyone elses.
2007-08-27 10:39:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋