She cooks. irons, washes, etc and I like it because I don't have to do anything. Surely as she doesn't complain too much I should let her do it all because I don't like chores. If she complained too much I could always replace her so is it correct and logical that I leave her to it?
2007-08-27 09:38:01 · 18 answers · asked by Nick H 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
where did you find her!! i need one!!!
2007-08-27 09:41:58 · answer #1 · answered by Mark C 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋
You feel guilty don't you? Why not talk about it? You see I hate chores too but I hate it even more when my husband decides to help, I would much rather he just put his plate in the sink or kept his stinking ashtray out my way than attack the ironing. But why not ask her how she feels? I bet you wouldn't get a better replacement!!
2007-08-27 16:46:04 · answer #2 · answered by Oldgirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No
You're being stupid
Every marriage (lasting) I have seen
the two have worked together
even the cowboy up at 3 and back at sundown
they still did dinner together he set the table and dried the dishes.
Never let that woman work alone if you can help > . < period
Never stop touching or holding HER
Always reminder her that you know how hard she must work Just for YOU.
2007-08-27 16:54:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You could go with that logic. You'd make great friends with this guy who frequents Polls & Surveys. I'm afraid with that attitude though, you'll never have a girlfriend last too long.
2007-08-27 16:47:17 · answer #4 · answered by Erin 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, as a woman I know how our minds work, she wont tell you to do anything she will just expect you to or at least offer. Surprise her one day while she is out and do a few jobs around the house. I guarantee it will be worth it for you
2007-08-27 16:45:57 · answer #5 · answered by xtina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need a girlfriend, you need a housekeeper. She may like it now but sooner or later she will learn to resent you for not helping and taking her for granted. But then who cares, like you say, you can always replace her.
2007-08-27 16:47:24 · answer #6 · answered by pictureshygirl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She obviously thinks you are too stupid to be trusted to do any of these jobs yourself. Oh and she's right. She will eventually get fed up with you and replace you, and you will be a sad old git. Oh you already are.
2007-08-27 16:51:06 · answer #7 · answered by marge 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, i don't think it is. I mean I don't mind piciking up after my fiance and what not, but it's ridiculous when you guys dont even offer to help every once in a while. Maybe you don't like to do it, but it sure would make her feel good that you offered to help.
2007-08-27 16:48:03 · answer #8 · answered by terin_blake 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. Shes your girlfriend not your housekeeper.
Your the one who needs replacing
2007-08-27 16:45:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you want someone doing you friggin' chores, find a friggin' maid!!! Or if you're so cheap you don't want to hire a maid, get your mom to do the chores for you, Lazy ****
2007-08-27 16:56:10 · answer #10 · answered by ♥ Lil love lady ♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Omg, it is so sexist to just expect your girlfriend to do all the housework. You should stop being lazy and help. You're lucky she hasn't left you.
2007-08-27 16:46:29 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋