Would you consider having a threesome or the idea dont appeal to you?
have you ever been involved in a threesome? if so did you enjoy it? would you want to do again?
2007-08-27 09:31:53 · 38 answers · asked by Dan C 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The ones I've had were pleasurable...not sure if I'd be interested in the future or not. Depends on the situation, people involved, etc.
2007-08-27 09:36:42 · answer #1 · answered by . 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
So, ok, yes, I have been in threesomes (and moresomes). It is very important when deciding if you want to do this kind of exploration, to make it clear that it is not going to be a permanent part of your relationship, you aren't doing it to find somebody else better to be with instead of your partner, and you just want to have the experience, not be unfaithful....
it was a great experience. My partner and I are sticking to each other for now, and I don't think we will have any "more-somes" any more, just because such things can strain a relationship, But I am very glad we experimented that way. It helped us more clearly define our own sexuality.
I think people who get an idea of something they would like to try, but don't go ahead with it, can get obsessed by the idea to the point that it damages their relationships. Then if they do eventually start doing it, it becomes a fetish, and they aren't really having sex with people anymore, they may as well just be masturbating.
2007-08-31 06:03:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is a really tricky question! Most guys drool over the thought of being with two women and it can be very exciting if the circumstances are right...... Here's the kicker..... usually two of the people involved are coupled and jealousy can be an issue when you introduce a third party. There would have to be complete trust. Not saying that I would want to be in this position but if life were a utopia and everything could be done without consequence.......then maybe I'd give it a try!
2007-08-28 02:31:48 · answer #3 · answered by Sunshine's Pic Is on 360 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Threesome is something I considered before marriage. Now that I'm married, no way, it would just cause problems. I think a threesome has be carried out with a good friend and a guy that you don't have strong feelings for.
2007-08-27 09:37:12 · answer #4 · answered by jackibear 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Yes I have been involved in a 3-some. It was ok and I think I enjoyed it more than my husband not that he didn't enjoy himself. I just did more often. Anyway would I do it again probably not I have 2 kids and have settled down ALOT.
As for those who say NO WAY or EWWWW. Dont knock it until you try it. There is a lot that adding another partner can teach you (and your partner). Our sex life has definetly improved.
But in no way would I make it a every day or every weekend thing. It was a great one time thing though.
2007-08-27 09:41:52 · answer #5 · answered by Kat 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I have considered a threesome before. Would like to do it before I get married; however, I don't think it would be with someone I really love though...Maybe just some friends of mine.
2007-08-27 09:42:40 · answer #6 · answered by bowleggedgirl 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I've had a threesome w/ my girl friend and some other girls. We understood what it was all about and it was great. We are married now and it was something that we haven't done in quite a few years, but it is somethiing that I dont' regret... Its like anything else in a relationship, you must communicate first before anything happends
2007-08-27 09:39:15 · answer #7 · answered by Moe 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes I have had a MFM type, it was fun for all. It's not for everyone though that's for sure, you really have to be comfortable with not only the people your with but your own sexuality.
I'm not sure if I will ever have another one, but the idea of FMF sounds both fun and intimidating at the same time. Plus it'd have to be 2 women I really trust, rumors after the fact can kill the enjoyment of a 3sum.
2007-08-27 09:40:19 · answer #8 · answered by m d 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In 1969 at Woodstock and it was great, I didn't do drugs so I remember it. I was 16 and these girls were 19-22, They knew what they were doing. It happened again when I was 19 and the girls were younger, to be honest I felt guilty, one of them was inatuated with me and did it to please me. I actually felt dirty. Nowadays with stds I wouldn't kiss two girls I didn't know.
I almost had a third one in college but some guy blocked me on it. I was a good looking kid, I'm 54 now
2007-08-27 09:43:04 · answer #9 · answered by frank 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would love to have a threesome. I am married and would love to. I am not one of these hypocritical guys who says only two girls though. If she would be willing to give me one with two girls then I am a secure enough man to allow her one with two guys. It is only fair. I haven't had the pleasure yet, but I am sure that if I did I would love it.
2007-08-27 09:37:49 · answer #10 · answered by No one 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Been there done that? If your in love with her than don't as if the girl likes her she will not give her up> An if you like the other girl more than your current than there can be issues >But if your both OK and don't care if you part then have fun Be safe an hope you don't catch anything>?
2007-08-27 09:41:16 · answer #11 · answered by 45 auto 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋