i had a breif relationship over a year ago with this guy,he was 9 years younger than me, it was great fun at the time and wasnt serious. i have since then got together with someone, i am very happy with them and have become very serious. however, recently i have been bumping into my younger ex, as we have mutual friends, we arent uncomfortable or weird round each other we get on quite well as friends. The thing is ive been having very sexual dreams about my ex ever since ive seen him again, and quite honestly i really dont want him again, so why am i having these dreams??? And because ive been dreaming these things i feel ridiculously guilty for dreaming them, so why am thinking of him in this way and should i feel guilty about it???
2007-08-27 09:06:31 · 17 answers · asked by emma252081 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dreams are just interpretations of our daily lives. If you have just seen your ex and started dreaming about him, sexually, it doesn't mean anything. Dreams are just random thoughts that pops into your head and becomes one BIG dream. Don't need to feel guilty. I'm pretty sure your boyfriend does that too from time to time. But it doesn't mean anything really!
2007-08-27 09:15:24 · answer #1 · answered by dr. phillian here.. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your dreams are just basic wants if he was a great boyfriend or some who made you feel really good about your self then the dreams are just you wanting that again. Dont worry about it and dont feel guilty about the dreams it happens.
2007-08-27 16:15:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dreams should be taken with a pinch of salt. Never feel guilty about them.
2007-08-27 16:15:10 · answer #3 · answered by Stella S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't feel guilty. these are only dreams and they don't mean anything. but u should pray and ask god what to do. if u r in a good relationship stick with it.
2007-08-27 16:14:57 · answer #4 · answered by Rachael H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We remember the past with fondness. You're not necessarily remembering him so much as the time. It was a good time, you had fun, and yes, it probably is better in hindsight.
Get over it and move on.
2007-08-27 16:13:13 · answer #5 · answered by Joker 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't read too much into it. If you are happy with your current relationship then thats really all that matters.
I dream quite often about my ex's, doesn't mean I want to shag them again though... there is a reason why they are ex's... and don't lose sight of that! lol.
2007-08-27 16:11:44 · answer #6 · answered by Stripper 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
don't think about it too much ghive it some time if it doens't go away try tlakin to ur friends or try to see if there is any unfisnish business between u 2
2007-08-27 16:13:41 · answer #7 · answered by ROCK LEE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't feel guilty. Its not like you control your dreams!!!
2007-08-27 16:20:55 · answer #8 · answered by Hugs from Sugar bug 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you can't help what you dream..Just remember there dreams and thats the end of it..Go ahead and try to find useless meaning behind a human mind for what reason?
Aren't you in a relationship? then WTF are you thinking?
2007-08-27 16:15:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's only a dream!!!
2007-08-27 16:33:58 · answer #10 · answered by Sasha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋