Virginity your point of view?

Question

don't tell me oh do not have sex because you are too young or i could cathc aids or w/e dat is not why i am askin this queestion i am aksin this because i want to know why people strive so much to lose their virginity is it like a burden to them r thye like sex addict like wat r ur morales about it do u believe it after marriage a certain age or so on dats the kind of answer dat i am lookin for wat is pushin u to lose or to keep it and what r ur thoughts about sex is it a way to show love or w/e wat is YOUR point of view

Answer 1

everyone wants it, and some do it. but personally i dont sleep around, i am still a virgin and proud of it. im not gunna be a slut and have my children have 4daddy's. im saving it till after marriage i dont give a f*** it is my descion and i get to chose, idc how much my bf says he loves me and how much he says he wants to be w/ me forever! i get to pick and im waiting, laugh at me all you want i dont care! im me and again im proud of it!

Answer 2

I was with my first man for 2 years before we decided to have sex. We are not togeather now, but we did love eachother. I feel that there comes a point in a relationship where you know this is the right thing to do. I think young people should wait until 18 when they can have a better understanding of love but I realize that this is not the reality of todays teens. I certainly think anything under 16 is wrong as the body has just begun to change and there is a high rate of children having children in this country. The thought of waiting until marriage??? Well, to be honest I think its a bit old fashioned and out dated. It is moraly a wonderful idea but lets face it, how do you know if you are going to end up with someone who is bad in bed if you dont try the goods first. I think this all depends on the adult mind and when someone is ready. I hope I have answered your question fully. Good luck.

Answer 3

I decided when I was little not to have sex until I was done with college. I believe no sex until marriage is valiant but beyond naive, a person never knows when or if they are going to get married. I believe when you are in high school and younger you don't know the full psychological implications of having sex, I was raised being told a break-up is bad, a break-up after you've had sex is easily 10x worse and the person you lose your virginity might as well rip your heart out when you break up with them. And being a Virgin, you get the feeling of either being ostracized or considered deficient when you're younger and in high school. When you get in your 20s it's ridiculous having friends/people giving you kudos.

Whenever people have sex, they do it for one of three reasons. 1) they feel the desire to have sex, that they are mature enough for sex and they are with the correct person and at the right place. 2) they have an overwhelming desire to make love to the person they are with. 3) they are somehow forced into it, either through the person sweet talking them or they talk their selves into it or a combination of those two.

And even though you said not to, you can't deny that in today's age, if you aren't careful, you are putting yourself in danger. I'm sure anyone who has thought about that has also been affected in their deciscion because of it.

Answer 4

Listen, sex is more than just an act. It involves giving a piece of yourself. People rush into losing it, because they see no value in keeping it. Most are not educated about sexually transmitted deceases. Sex isn't like they show it on TV. Good sex takes time with the same partner. This is why waiting until marriage is good. There is a long commitment with both of you so you can be vulnerable. Don't let people push you to do something you don't want to do. My hubby waited 32 yrs. We are doing great, and I wish I had waited for him too. Good luck

Answer 5

tell me. how weird would it b if u did it w/ ur special someone, then a month later, u break up. akward right? wouldnt u like to do it with the right person..aka the person u marry? cuz again, how weird would it b if u waited, and ur spouse didnt..and vice versa...kinda feel like a second hander right? i rlly dont think its a burden. id rather wait and not get diseases or give in to stupid peer pressure or have something else go wrong. rlly, this is your life, not ur friends,or anyone else whos tellin u to do it cuz after ull b so glad that ur not a virgin anymore or any other lame excuse. i think its only rlly a sign of love if u wait...then give it up when u get married. im not rlly old school, but i just want to think smart about this one topic. answer ur question?

Answer 6

from the phrasing of your question you're clearly too young to be having sex.

That being said, I waited until I found the right person, was in love, and was sure. It wasn't a burden at all, but rather a badge of courage that I wasn't tempted to hit anything that was offered. I made the choice, not peer pressure.

Answer 7

well i was raised in a christian home and i accepted christ as saviour at a very young age so now at the age of 22 i am still a virgin. I am saving myself for marriage. I know that people may call me crazy but I really don't care. I know that pre-marital sex is a sin against god and yourself. Listen to me it's not to late you can become a secondary virgin.

Answer 8

I'm a very strong Christian, and I'm not willing to comprimise my relationship and standings with God for some worldly pleasure. If you read the bible, you'll see that sex before marriage is called fornication, which is huge sin. However, if you wait until you're married to do it, it'll mean more.. and that person you marry will respect you alot more, knowing you waited for them, and knowing they're the only person you ever have given, and ever will give that part of yourself. I'm not trying to preach to you, I'm just saying.. It's gotta be worth the wait, or it wouldn't say so in the bible. And, you more than likely won't regret it. :]

Answer 9

They think losing their virginity to some guy, or in some cases a guy losing their virginity to some gal, will mean that other person loves them. I always tell people to wait until they are married for that. It usually gets me a lot of thumbs down, but then later on people tell me I was right.

Answer 10

No premarital sex for me.It's wrong imo.There are more ways to show your love for a person other than sex.
edit* Once you've lost it, you can nver get it back. You can decide to abstain. I know ppl who abstain and are in their 30s. We don't have to worry about stds or pregnancy.

I also know a 55 yr old virgin male and several other virgins.People can control themselves despite this sex permeated society.

Answer 11

I think it's better to wait until you are married just because it's something nice you can give to your husband/wife on your honeymoon.
What's so special about your honeymoon if you have already had sex with someone?