that.and her parents have threaten to disown her if she does not drop me. i am sending this again because it was deleated before i could read the answers.
2007-08-27 09:00:58 · 25 answers · asked by crypuppy007 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i dont think theres anything wrong with it. You are adults, able to make your own decisions. If you are happy, and she is happy then be happy.
2007-08-27 09:03:59 · answer #1 · answered by Cebsme 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't see anything wrong with this, however, if you had a 30 year old daughter and she were dating a gentleman your age, would you approve? I think it's a catch 22. I can see both sides. Unfortunately her parents aren't pleased. I hope they have had a chance to meet you before they formed an opinion. Also alot depends on her wanting children or her not/having children etc. That's part of it also, I'd think. I do however wish the 2 of you much happiness and hope that her parents minds can be changed. Best of luck to you both.
2007-08-27 09:10:52 · answer #2 · answered by ishowtt4beads 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong with that. Love is love. Your two grown adults.
However make sure she is true. I knew someone in that position and was only interested in the objects the man had. Ended up two years later after a commintment she had her name on about everything he owned.....she got half of everything in court. He has to sell the home that was in his family for over 45 years. Now he lives in an apartment with very little to nothing.....she cleaned his clock.
Some women are gold diggers too...make sure to have this relationship in writing if it gets serious enough of marriage. The terms if you split up. Sorry that has to be done but so many out there now days wanting a free ride.
2007-08-27 09:07:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The 2 of you have something special and she is a grown woman and does not need the permission of her parents . I am in the same boat not age wise but my mother doesn't like the man I am with . Honestly , I feel the only one that has a say in my life is GOD and he knows whats best .
Good Luck you are blessed to find happiness at 64 .
2007-08-27 09:07:19 · answer #4 · answered by Constance M 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am a 30 years old and I personally wont date a man your age but that is just my opinion. But if she loves you and you love her she needs to make up her mind. Its very bad when a family holds money over a person's head.
I only say one thing to you if you don't truly love this lady let her go because it seems like she is giving up a lot to be with you.
2007-08-27 09:11:53 · answer #5 · answered by My Three 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing "WRONG" if you're happy together and your love is real. You both are old enough to make your choices, regardless of what others say -- even if they're your or her parents/family!!! They can say as they please, that should not interfere in your relationship. The couple is formed by you and her, not by the entire genealogical tree. So let them do as they please -- it'll be their loss in the long run. But if they're ok with losing their daughter only cuz they do not agree with her decisions...... then so be it!! Not your problem or hers. She shouldn't allow her parents to blackmail her. If she wants to stay with you she should, regardless of what her parents' opinion is!
2007-08-27 09:27:34 · answer #6 · answered by Lprod 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're damn right there's something wrong with it. I'm 68 and have a daughter. If she came home and said she had a "boy friend" who was nearly as old as me I'd find him and kick his butt.
There's one of two things happening here, you old fool. Either you have a lot of money and look like you're about to kick the bucket and she's a gold digger OR she's mentally retarded.
Look in the mirror, dipso. Do you honestly think any young person of 30 is genuinely going to be "in love" with you. Wake up and smell the wrinkles.
Do what's right for you and her. Tell her to go find someone her own age. Remember the old admonition: THERE'S NO FOOL LIKE AN OLD FOOL.
2007-08-27 09:10:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
First of all this young lady is only 30 years old and your sixty four years old . thats to much of age difference and they probably want the best for their daugher to get married and have them some grand children. if she loves you and you love her but the parents are threating to disown her than she has got to make a choice her self.
Do what you think is best
good luck
2007-08-27 09:07:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
no there is nothing wrong with that. If u really love the person age should not matter and it doesn't. At least you are lucky i like a guy who is 18 and i am 22 and he said i am too old for him.
2007-08-27 09:12:44 · answer #9 · answered by Rachael H 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Her parents are being jackasses, she's a grown woman and unless she's financially/emotionally dependent on her parents in anyway their threat holds no water. It may not be everyone's cup of tea but no one is forced to drink it now are they?
2007-08-27 09:05:56 · answer #10 · answered by Manny 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
As long as you're both in the relationship for the right reasons and you truly love each other, then there is nothing wrong with it. Good luck!
2007-08-27 09:05:20 · answer #11 · answered by jackibear 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋