we see each other twice a week ...and things are great but it is me who always does the texting thing to start with he replies but never makes the first move on texting ...am i pressuring ?
2007-08-27 08:45:08 · 24 answers · asked by jojo302 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Read the signs, don't be blind, he's losing interest. No big deal, just move on, don't embarrass yourself by continuing to be the first one to send them.
2007-08-27 08:48:53 · answer #1 · answered by Pat Smear 4 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Don't read to much into it. If he is not avoiding you completely he is probably not tired of you. Some people, especially guys, tend not to be very good at keeping in touch. Plus there are only so many things that a couple can talk about. The first few weeks of a relationship there is more to talk about, you are just getting to know each other! If a couple can not survive the initial time when there is less to talk about, then it is in for a long and bumpy road. My hubby and I are together almost 24 hours a day, we don't always have anything to say to each other.. We have just had to learn to appreciate our time of just being together, weather we have anything to say to each other or not.
2007-08-27 08:54:33 · answer #2 · answered by Dreams 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, chill out. Guys are often not so good with the phone calls and the texts - that's just them. Don't put pressure on - it's only been six weeks and he could run a mile. Just take each date as it comes, enjoy yourself and he will want to see you again. Unfortunately, at the early stages of dating, you often don't know when they are going to call or text but you just have to wait - you can't put pressure on - it will make you look needy and nagging.
2007-08-27 08:51:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Different relationships go differently. You still see each other twice a week, ask him if he has a texting plan.
Once or twice my fiance would just stop texting me, he wasn't losing interest he was just worried about running the bill up.
2007-08-27 08:54:31 · answer #4 · answered by Manny 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is there any evidence that he enjoys texting? Some people prefer phone than texting because it takes too long to communicate. If he was texting up a storm before and has slowed down he may have become weary. Slow down on the texting and do more verbal/phone communication and see if that helps.
2007-08-27 08:50:31 · answer #5 · answered by Man Ace 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The same thing happened to me. Try going one day without texting him first. See if he initaites the converstaion, then. If he does, good. If not, talk to him about it. He may just be shy. Or afraid to say something wrong. It doesn't mean he wnats to end it, neccesairlly. Or, try calling. Ask hid best friend to talk to him.
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I was in the same position, and now my bf and I are very happy, and talk a lot. with BOTH of us starting converstaions. =]
2007-08-27 08:51:34 · answer #6 · answered by singerofsongs19 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Twice aweek doesnt sound much for a new relationship stop texting and see if he comes running,I know its hard but u need to know good luck
2007-08-27 08:55:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He should be calling you.... not texting! I mean that is okay very now and again, but he should want to here your voice. I don't think you texting him is pressuring him... Showing up unannounced at his home would be pressuring...and a little creepy:) Good Luck!
2007-08-27 08:50:47 · answer #8 · answered by Jenn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no your not presuring him, i only see my g/f twice a week, and dont really text her unless she txt me first or i jst wake up n think hmm how is she doing. its a nice relaxed relationship if he was txting you all the time it would leave him with no time to himself, he probly likes his space, but iwould call him every night for 1 week just to double check he wasnt disapearing elsewear then after that i wouldnt worry
2007-08-27 08:50:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm. always do what is positive that can help to better this relationship. he might not be initiative on text but he might shower his attention in other manner. both of u complement each other. than compared urself with his ex. negative thoughts and actions can only damage a relations. :)
2007-08-27 08:59:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
it doesnt mean he's not interested at all. He just might be feeling that your busy and rather wait for you to text first. Just say it to him jokingly and read the signs. You should be able to tell from that.
2007-08-27 08:50:35 · answer #11 · answered by Emm H 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋