2007-08-27 07:44:31 · 51 answers · asked by Besos 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes it is its unfair to them if ur not ready 4 a real relationship wit 1 person then jus do wat i do b single then u cna stil go on dates w/o being exclusive with ne 1 guy n u can do as much flirting as u want bcuz i kno how it feels 2 want 2 be with mor then 1 person at the same time but if they find out u will hav 3 less friends
hope this helps
2007-08-27 07:50:31 · answer #1 · answered by blumunke93 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Was never in to the group thing. Friends who are say it is hard to balance. Guess what you mean is: can I see one on Tuesday, one on Thursday, and the other on Saturday sort of thing? This is fine as long as you let them know about the others, as soon as you start to hide that you are lying. Not good. It also gets ugly in that you are playing one agents the other, could start a fight, and very likely someone will be hurt. But if you are blunt and open from the onset you know “I’m not looking for a committed relationship right now”, or “I really like you but I want to keep my options open right now” type thing it just might work.
2007-08-27 07:57:10 · answer #2 · answered by grey_worms 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I used to do it all the time when I was young and single, I could probably do it now thw way 40-50 year old women are always flirting, but my wife would get cranky.
I took girls to the beach on Saturday mornings, others to clubs or up to NY on Saturday nights, slept late on Sundays and took a special date to a concert and dinner on Sunday nights.
You know you have to keep space between them and that you will get caught no matter how careful you are, as a man it gets expensive too. I kept it up for about a year and a half, when I got out of the service I met my wife.
2007-08-27 07:53:31 · answer #3 · answered by frank 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends. Some people do not want to commit to just one person and there is nothing wrong with that. Do they know that you are seeing other people? Or, are you hiding it from them, making them think they are the only one? That would be wrong. Also, sleeping with all 3 (if you are) does not speak very highly of you and I'm sure they would not appreciate it either. Hope this helps :-)
2007-08-27 08:00:00 · answer #4 · answered by tn2vegas 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're honest with all 3 of them, and they don't have a problem with it, then it's fine, but if you're supposed to be with 1 person, and are seeing 2 others on the side, then it's wrong. So, if they know about one another, it's fine, otherwise, it's wrong. You're just setting yourself up for heartbreak in the end...
2007-08-27 07:52:54 · answer #5 · answered by CrankyWhenHungry 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, not at all! People these days should keep their social life and intimate relationships with others OPEN... Too many fish in the sea. I myself make it understood that this is the way I prefer it to be. Therefore, no-one gets hurt, and if they don't like it or don't want to accept it, we know it won't work out at all between us and its over before it starts. I also like the way it brings my friends even closer... nothing to hide... no jealousy or violation of fidelity issues... just good times with each other.
2007-08-27 07:59:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no not really unless you are married to one of them or going steady with one of them..then if not your are just dating 3 different ppl...and lots of ppl do that. but you dont mean like all 4 of yall together at the same time right. if that's the case its call an orgy...lol but good luck and have fun dating.
2007-08-27 07:49:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not telling them you are dating other guys then yes that is wrong. It seems to stressful to juggle 3 relationships then to have just one good relationship. Maybe you need to figure out what you want first before you get involved in relationships. It obvious none of them make you truly 100% happy or you wouldn't be in this situation..
2007-08-27 07:53:13 · answer #8 · answered by Pamela 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're just dating, and all three people are aware that you're just dating and are not monogamous, then it's fine.
If any of these people are under the impression that there is a "boyfriend-girlfriend" relationship here, then yes it's wrong and you need to be honest with them and yourself about who/what you really want.
2007-08-27 07:49:53 · answer #9 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not as long as they know about each other. I mean, you would not want to go out with them and them think that they are the only one only to find out differently. I went out with a guy once, and on the first date he just came out and told me that he was seeing 3 other people. I thought it was really cool that he told me that, and held no feeling against him, but if he had not told me, and i'd found out, i would have been mad.
2007-08-27 08:01:59 · answer #10 · answered by wingedstrider 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋