Here's the deal.. I met a man but he didn't want to talk because he was in a relationship with his kids mother. The next time I seen him he explain that they were not together. From that point on he was always around me coming over to my house sleeping over. We were getting real close. He said that I was perfect, he loved everything about me and I felt the same way. Then all of a sudden he becomes very distant and he doesn't talk to me as much. He claims his ex is still he at his crib and she has nowhere to go so he is working on that and he's father is dying. But why does he have to distance himself from me. I got him a cell so he can talk to me but he doesn't call like I thought he would. He doesn't come over at all. I am just confussed and I need some advise.
2007-08-27 07:30:43 · 14 answers · asked by Sexiimizz 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok well first you need to tell him to be honest about how he feels about you. Also, don't be too into his business. If he's going through all of those problems he's probably stressed out and doesn't want to deal with a relationship right now. And If he doesn't want to tell you how he feels, move on! There are other guys that will.
2007-08-27 07:39:14 · answer #1 · answered by mmorales00 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You got him a cell phone? Get the phone back and move on. He has too much going on in his life (he claims) for a relationship right now. You will be better off without him especially if his ex is still living with him...????
2007-08-27 14:37:15 · answer #2 · answered by mayihelpyou 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's always going to have a relationship with the mother of his children. You messed up by buying him a cell phone because now he stopped calling you and is probably calling other girls (including his baby mama) You need to let him go and find yourself a man that fulfill your needs! Good Luck!
2007-08-27 14:39:01 · answer #3 · answered by lisa9479 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably yes but if his father is dying he probably doesnt know how to talk to you about it and he may be bottling things in. Dont hold back , you be the first to approach him and he may become more forward with you. If you think he is being distant and your keeping back it will make it harder for the both of you to approach one another so be the one to make the first move.
2007-08-27 14:37:18 · answer #4 · answered by lozzy203 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry but I think you got played. He was happy enough to mess around as long as he was away from his ex (or so he says). Maybe he was never broken up with her and the heat was getting to him and he was clsoe to getting busted - hence the sudden disapearing act!
Cancel the phone asap and move on!
2007-08-27 14:37:10 · answer #5 · answered by Prohibition Rose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Turn his phone off, and move on with your life. You deserve better than this! Best wishes!
2007-08-27 14:35:58 · answer #6 · answered by j c 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you werent able to go to his house and she is living there ...you need to cut your losses and stop being the "other" woman.
2007-08-27 14:36:37 · answer #7 · answered by ms_sweet_real 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he out of your life? If you're lucky, he is.
P.S.
Oh, and cancel the cell, like right now.
2007-08-27 14:35:10 · answer #8 · answered by claudiacake 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, you just got played. He so lied to you.
2007-08-27 14:36:25 · answer #9 · answered by Been There Done That 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
here is your advice. Get your phone back, and dump the loser.
2007-08-27 14:35:43 · answer #10 · answered by diablo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋