im not being sexually satisfied by my boyfriend ;[, hes great but theres not much excitement in bed. i don't want to break up with him over it, i want to talk to him about it but not sure how to, any advice? or what other alternatives do i have to get myself satisfied without ending it with this great guy?
2007-08-27 07:04:00 · 10 answers · asked by lara 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
besides masturbation!
2007-08-27 07:04:44 · update #1
if you know what you like just suggest that he does the things that you like.
if you don't know what you like then that is the problem if you don't know how could he possible know
2007-08-27 07:14:27 · answer #1 · answered by rodawg7 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell me, if it was me i would want to be told. Don't say it it in a hurt full way just say let try .... because i am not really liking .... . Don't say it because of him. For me the most important thing in sex is getting her off (with in reason no nasty stuff). That makes me happy because i want us both it enjoy and love doing it. i think most guys have more fun during when she is having fun too.
2007-08-27 10:24:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I once had to do this.........I conveniently was reading the Cosmo magazine when he came home from work........he sat down and asked what i was reading.....I handed him the magazine and said that i was going to go make dinner, that night he must of read something in the magazine because he tried some new things....I think guys are scared to shake things up sometimes because they don't know how you will feel about it
2007-08-27 07:14:27 · answer #3 · answered by logey03 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him but make sure you find out why you are not getting what you need from you relationship. Guys don't deal with this stuff well, so if it is something he is not doing ask him to try this..you know experiment.
2007-08-27 07:10:46 · answer #4 · answered by Craig B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he really loves you or likes you, you should be able to have a calm conversation with him. Just tell him how you feel, maybe you guys can come up with some fun new ideas to try out!! Good Luck!!
2007-08-27 07:09:31 · answer #5 · answered by musicgrl42002 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask what he likes and hopefully he'll ask you back.
Go to a bookstore and casually walk near the relationship/sex books and look through them and maybe even purchase 1 or 2.
Show him what you like.
write what you like or want to try on pieces of paper and put it in a jar and let him draw a little somethin-somethin...put a few in there he wants to try or like too.
draw a picture. LOL
2007-08-27 07:14:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you haven't developed telepathy yet, you'll have to start taliking...
Higher! Lower! Faster! Slower! Right there! Right There! Oh! OH! Oh!
2007-08-27 07:13:47 · answer #7 · answered by Sophie B 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Seek a sex therapist or coach to teach him how to perform.
2007-08-27 07:13:54 · answer #8 · answered by Dougie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk or Walk.
2007-08-27 07:12:00 · answer #9 · answered by Sara007 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have him use some toys with you.
2007-08-27 07:10:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋