Help!!??Looked in my boyfriends phone..?

Question

I looked at my boyfriends phone and saw a text from a grl named Roxy saying "thanks you're beautiful too" i confronted him and he denied it. do u think he's cheating?

Answer 1

If you saw it with your own eyes in his phone, and then he turn around and denys it, that means he has something to hide. I would definately re evaluate my relationship and make a decision about what I want my relationship to be like. If he is already lying to you about a text message, just play the whole tape through and imagine what other lies he is going to tell and the fact that you can't trust him if he is lying. Good luck

Answer 2

Why are you checking his phone? Do you not trust him? Has he given you motives to be spying on him? In the event you took the time to call and simply let any person pick up the phone why did not you be daring ample to ask in the event that they knew him? Where they incoming or outgoing calls? If they lasted not up to a minute isn't that telling you that he did not speak to any person? He did just what you did dialed the number and immediately hung up? How are you aware that the female answering the mobile is the character he used to be watching for or seeking to talk to anyway? That might be a sister, a cousin or even a female friend to a friend of his. You must stop digging for matters due to the fact i'm certain if he did the same to you you wouldn't adore it. Stop looking and digging and be girl enough to be in contact with your man. I am sure he'd recognize you asking him higher than he'd recognize you spying on him.

Answer 3

okay. first of all, ask yourself why you looked in the first place.... you obviously have a "gut" instinct that something is going on... and you found something.

Many times, when we go looking for bad news, we find it. Is it because we "interpret" the news as bad or is it because it was there all along and we are just now ready to discover it? Who knows... the bottom line is, you looked. And you found something.

There could be many many reasons for the text... but I am a bit confused... how could he deny something that you know you saw??? That right there is a BIG red flag. Is he trying to convince you that you "misread" the text? Is he trying to lie and say you never saw it?? What a croc!! YOU know what you saw. And the word "too" means ALSO which means he complimented her first.

Is he cheating? Well - he's a liar.... if he is denying the text... he is lying to you. Does that mean he is cheating? What is he trying to hide by lying about the text???

Tooooo many questions - You are going to have to deal with this now or later. I'd let him know that first of all, you read what you read.... and you know what you saw... so he can explain it... but don't deny it.

Lastly - if you don't want to "find out" this sort of stuff, stop snooping... and trust the guy.

But I'd trust my instincts on this one. You looked for a reason.... your subconscious is trying to tell you something your heart wants to deny.

Its your choice to trust him. It is also your choice to trust yourself. Pick the most reliable one.

Answer 4

I'll answer from experience. I have a lot of new friends from college and work and what not, and between us, we have a couple of inside jokes that, read out of context, could lead anyone to believe that I was having a relationship with most of them. When the truth of the matter is that I am very faithful to my girl and even if the chance of cheating presented itself to me, I wouldn't even consider it. So I think you shouldn't really worry about it too much, but since not all guys are the same, be weary. One thing though, you going through his phone, now, that's were I have a problem with. That is personal, and unless you are his wife or maybe his fiancee, I suggest you do not do it again.

Answer 5

I know this is going to sound crazy because I too would be upset, especially since he is denying it. However, you had no right going through his personal stuff to begin with. I too have been guilty of "snooping" so here is the best way to look at it from now on: If you hadn't snooped, you would not have known that the text existed in the first place. Unless you are looking for a reason to break up with him, live in "ignorant bliss" until he gives you a reason to snoop in his stuff and even then, don't confront him with information if you aren't planning on breaking up with him when you discover it.

Answer 6

Cheating? Not sure. Maybe he just paid her a compliment. But obviously he has been texting another girl. How can he deny a text that is on his phone. Maybe you didn't ask the right questions... like are you texting this girl? Do you two talk? If he denies this, you can bet he's a liar.

Answer 7

Well, he may not be cheating, but telling another girl that she is beautiful is definitely inappropriate for someone in a relationship (the way it was done). Of course, he is going to deny it. He was busted. Only you can decide whether or not he is worth continuing on with. If you are going to feel like you aways need to check his phone and wonder if he is lying...well...what kind of relationship is that?

Good luck with it. I hope that it works out for you either way you go.

Answer 8

Not firing you up more, but, sounds like to me.

Confronting is too forceful - just ask him nicely next time. This is very important matter to you so you want it smooth because you want to leave a good reputation to him. If he can't give you a good reason what that is in a nice manner, then he is cheating. He has the right to see other people because he is not married to you, but in due respect for you, you have the right to know also. Anything that's a secret to you that could cause you to hurt is a cheat if your relationship with him is ongoing and active. especially if physical contact is also ongoing. If you request for "her" telephone number (which you should ask for it -) and he doesn't want to give it to you, then he likes her more than other people. That could be a ground for a break-up.

Answer 9

I don't think he is cheating, but he did say to another girl that she was beautiful. Now really that is up to you how you react. My ex hated when I payed other woman complements. She would even go so far as to say that I was sleeping with these woman that I complimented. Really I wouldn't freak on him about this. If he is going off and not talking to you for extended periods of time, or something to that effect, I would question him, but other then that I think he just said another woman was good looking and that's all. Hope this helps.

-Ty

Answer 10

I don't think he's cheating, but its really not right of him to be texting a girl, telling her she's beautiful when you're not aware of it and then denying it. This behavior will probably lead to him cheating though. Dump the loser!