why is that admired so much but yet always left?

Question

i dont get it im honest,fun,wild,everything.but even after all i learn in each one relationship i always seem to be left in the end.im just a bit confused about relationships for me .i love life,i love everything about.but it seems like im gonna be alone. i dont see it getting any better.all my ex's and me leave cause we have too such as new work or moving cause life makes us.so i get that.but when im a person that works that includes traveling,should i not date or build relationships? its just sad that no matter how well it seems its never gonna work with me.

Answer 1

It's hard to say without knowing your age. It could be that you're trying too hard to make it work. Sit back and relax a little bit...don't worry so much about finding the right person. The more you look, the less you seem able to find him...at least for me. I always get into relationships when I'm really not looking for one.

Answer 2

The honesty part is the only real quaility you have up there for a deep and geniune relationship, as far as fun and wild go thats just bs towards actually establishing a long lasting relationship but great for making shallow one night relationships!!! People don't seem to grasp the fact that the world is a serious, bitter/sweet experience, that doesn't mean fun... rrrr, ether way its all on you, the great thing about the truth of relationships is that there as unqiue and as individual as the individuals in them. Maybe if you let go of the "Traditional" ideal of what a relatonship is and just hold on to the fact that the biggest, greatest thing a relatioship can really give us is some compassion, passion, and of course companianship. As far as finding that tall, dark stranger your suppose to fall in love with and have his kiddos, let go of that, its a nice fantasy, but as you've found, isn't reality. And accept the fact that as long as you keep yourself in the truth, in the honest part of communication, if done right, you can have some great relationships that way. Its only conditioned norms that say it has to be done, THIS WAY, or else it isn't going to work, thats not true becasue THIS WAY is a 75% divorce rate.... so feel some liberation knowing that YOUR able to make relationships that work for YOU. Not for everyone else, so keep being honest with them and yourself, and hopfully at the least you can get what you really need, which is understanding and trust. I wish the best for you, this is a new age and a new world, and we need some new relationships in them to make it work. Just be HONEST, that is the single most important factor in any relationship, just don't loss sight to being HONEST with yourself too!