my 'best friend' has turned into an ignorant, prejudice, two-faced, using tramp. (sorry if this sounds bitchy but it's true) and i want to ditch her because i can't be around her negativity anymore. talking to her won't help because the family are like it too plus she won't listen anyway.
any advice???
2007-08-27 06:23:20 · 19 answers · asked by ♥SPARKLES♥™ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Make yourself unavailable.......ever! So your assignment is to find lots of ways to stay busy, that don't involve her.
Eventually she'll ask, (if not, problem solved), usually when people ask they are more ready to listen.
Tell her the truth, (give her an opportunity for growth), if she changes, great.
If not, revert to being unavailable, when she asks, refer to the last conversation you had about her behavior.
Luck
2007-08-27 06:28:17 · answer #1 · answered by spam_free_he_he 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
walk up to her and tell that she has become a bit*h and you dont like the new way she acts that you miss her old self and you wont hang with the new attitude because it is disgusting but say it nicely then tell her if she doesnt become less bitchy than you wont hang out with her good luck and be nice so she wont get mad also say that the new her is becoming out of hand and that she should fix it maybe if you tell her she will realize and change maybe she had no idea good luck
2007-08-27 13:32:16 · answer #2 · answered by peace love<3 happiness=) 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
People like her don't listen, and you're right about that. No sense in trying to talk to her. Just start backing away. Don't be available on the weekends and miss a few of her phone calls. Switch the script and she'll find someone else to make miserable.
2007-08-27 13:30:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Send her a letter telling her how disappointed you are in whatever it is she is doing that you disapprove of. Tell her you can't spend time with her while she keeps up the behavior, then follow through with your threat. True friends try to get their friends turned around, but if it is going to drag you down too, best to just cut ties, stop returning phone calls, emails, etc....
2007-08-27 13:29:47 · answer #4 · answered by Brenda T 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ignore her. Eventually she will care and want to know whats up then tell her in person. If she is your best friend and your her best friend then she will care enough to find out but ignore her if she doesnt react to it then your home free and plus she doesnt really care anymore
2007-08-27 13:28:42 · answer #5 · answered by Keith 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
ignore her, and if she asks why youre mad tell her that shes too negative and you dont want to be her friend if shes going to use you.. etc. dont worry about hurting her feelings because its not like you want to hang out with her ever again.. (sorry if that sounded mean lol)
good luckk
2007-08-27 13:36:45 · answer #6 · answered by hcogirl14 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well just stay away, if she says anything just tell her you do not like who she has become and you can not deal with her negative attitude anymore. and let that be that.
2007-08-27 13:31:15 · answer #7 · answered by hummingbird 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do what makes you happy You hang out with negativity it brings it your way too.
2007-08-27 13:29:30 · answer #8 · answered by B 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just tell her you dont like her attitude anymore and you dont want to hang out with her anymore. she will either change or never talk to you again, either way, problem solved. goodluck.
2007-08-27 13:31:14 · answer #9 · answered by deedee 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell her to get lost that u dont want to be her mate anymore and that should do it tell her the truth its the best policy for anything
2007-08-27 13:29:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋