Ok me and my boyfriend have been dating for like 3 years now, i love him so much and want to be with him forever. The thing is he's the only guy I've ever been with and some of my friends think I need to branch out and see what else is out there. What do you think??
2007-08-27 06:17:21 · 28 answers · asked by LoveMeForMe 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ask yourself if he's EVERYTHING you want. And if you're sure that is what you want. You should never settle, or feel obligated to stay. If you can't find anything wrong with him (mind you anything major, we're not talking about talking with his mouth full), then i say stay with him. If you, yourself are wondering if there is anything better out there, i would say you should see the world a bit. If you guys were meant to be together, you'll find your way back to each other.
2007-08-27 06:22:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you both feel the same way about each other, there is no need to branch out. I would just sit down and make sure he is really everything you want in a man, or are you just with him because the relationship is comfortable. If you find yourself wanting more than he can offer, then it might be time to make yourself available for Mr. Right. But on the other hand, if you are happy with this man and could live the rest of your life with him, then stick around! There is only one Mr. Right on the planet for you, and if you have already found him, there is no need to move on. Best wishes!
2007-08-27 13:24:02 · answer #2 · answered by j c 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you truly Love him, then Do Not "branch out". That will end up ruining yall for good. I know they are your friends, but sometimes friend's advice is not always right. Its ok to be with only one guy for life. I think some of your friends might be a little jealous. Do whats in your heart!!!
2007-08-27 13:25:55 · answer #3 · answered by justn's~mudgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your boyfriend is a great guy and you've been dating for 3 years and are happy and want a future with him then stay with him don't listen to your friends.
They may be your friends but they may also be jealous because you have a great relationship with your boyfriend and spend less time with them to branch out.
Its not easy to find a great guy so count yourself lucky.
2007-08-27 13:30:35 · answer #4 · answered by maryv2013 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friends obviously didnt consider that you like him alot. I can see why they are concernd but you got REALLY lucky very few people meet their other half for the first time take note of it and continue on with your relationship if things go south then branch out but enjoy what you have now
2007-08-27 13:21:15 · answer #5 · answered by Keith 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think you should. I (23)just got married to my guy(25) who was my second. And sometime I think about the what if's and etc. I wish I could have been able to live a little bit more. But overall I'm content, I just sometime think about what it would have been like if I did.
2007-08-27 13:24:45 · answer #6 · answered by They Love ME......... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you have something great going and maybe your friends are jelous that your happy. If things in the long run dont work out with you too then yeah go for it, see whats out there but dont be stupid and loose what you already have.
2007-08-27 13:23:44 · answer #7 · answered by Elly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are different needs for different people.
Some people need to explore men and some are
pretty satisfy staying with one for a long time.
If you love him...
dont lose him.
love is a rare thing.
trust me...
most guys out there are looking for a night's meal...
and women are the main course.
2007-08-27 13:23:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever heard the expression "Don't try to fix what isnt broken"?
If you love him, and he loves you back, don't rock the boat. Just enjoy being with eachother. You're lucky, why throw that away for "experience" with someone you dont even care about?
2007-08-27 13:25:25 · answer #9 · answered by Taylor. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're happy where you are, why go out and ruin that? If you start to hit bumpy patches/breaks, etc., then yea, explore a little, see if it's what you really want, but for the most part, I'd stick with him if you're happy.
2007-08-27 13:23:43 · answer #10 · answered by tiinker_bella69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋