I need help... so if anyone can help or give me any information on how to keep him out of my life....
2007-08-27 06:05:20 · 12 answers · asked by Samantha S 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
Uh, well, refraining from judging a situation that would cause you to make up such a horrendous lie, I'll just answer.
Just tell him you went ot he bathroom and there was a LOT of blood. Tell him you had cramps. If you can get away with it, tell him you went to the doctor and had an ultrasound and no hearbeat.
I hope you never have to have a real one.
2007-08-27 06:13:15 · answer #1 · answered by Dalice Nelson 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I am assuming that by posting this that you have some sort of access to the internet that the man you are with does not. If that is the case do a search in your area for a shelter. If you can not do that and have no private access to a phone use a public one or one at work and call the National Domestic Violence Tollfree Hotline at 1-800-799-7233. They can help you to better understand what you need to do. If the situation is to escalated to allow you time to prepare then get yourself to the nearest shelter. If you have proof of the abuse (witnesses, hospital records, etc) use them to file a restraining order. Not always effective but a first step.
The 2 links below should help with your planning and please don't fake a miscarriage and get out now before he causes you to have one for real.
Good Luck and Godspeed.
2007-08-27 13:40:39 · answer #2 · answered by grk_tigris 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't need to fake a miscarriage, just leave. And if he follows you or threatens you call the police. Do everything you can to leave contact family to help you. If you dont have family near you find a good friend, but if he's abusive just leave don't be afraid. Good luck
2007-08-27 13:13:30 · answer #3 · answered by Jessica H 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get yourself to a shelter. Now! Don't wait. Don't worry about faking anything, just go. Pack a small bag if you have time. If you don't, don't worry, the shelter will help you with those arrangements.
Good luck and God bless.
2007-08-27 13:12:34 · answer #4 · answered by January Love 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
UMMM WHY would you even have sex and be with a 'man' that was a drug addict and abusive??
Not very smart....
Just leave and go to a shelter to stay with family.....
2007-08-27 13:22:14 · answer #5 · answered by Heather 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call a shelter and get a restraining order.
There's no need to pretend, just pack up and GO.
2007-08-27 13:40:12 · answer #6 · answered by M L 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
!.) go to a shelter for abused women/family or close friends house.
2.) get a restraining order.
3.) Don't be afraid, if you are afraid it will eat you up.
2007-08-27 13:28:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont thinkt hat is the right thing to do. MAybe you should contact a local shelter for abused women and they can help you and maybe get you out of the situation.
2007-08-27 13:13:13 · answer #8 · answered by April 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont' fake, just leave....that is a very dangerous relationship and you need out....he doesn't love you if he is abusing you.
2007-08-31 11:59:56 · answer #9 · answered by momto3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't fake anything. Pack your bags and walk, no run. good luck
2007-08-27 13:12:37 · answer #10 · answered by reynwater 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋