A man who comes from a broken home and see's people all the time staying together unhappy and cheating in there marriage because of what they would lose money wise if they split, and also seeing couples that do divorse only to find out she took him for everything.
Now he has found the woman of his dreams, after 33 years of being careful, and not jumping into marriage he finds himself at a turning point. The woman he's with loves him and Is perfect for him, she has agreed to sign a prenupt and a working contract so that way she can never take anything that is not hers. Its like a divore before you get married. The only thing is after living so long as seeing something as a bad thing , he's having night marres about asking her to marry him. He figures if he doesnt ask her soon she'll eventualyl leave because she believes in marrage before kids, but so does he and he wants kids to. So what do you think he should do, he really has nothing to loose just what he's believed in. ????
2007-08-27 06:00:18 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You will probably make an excellent husband and father simply because you know that you don't want your future kids to have the same experience you have growing up. More important you are in love and the is greatest feeling a human will ever experience, not even money can replace a true love. You woman agreed to have prenupt, what more do you need to know.
2007-08-27 06:12:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with chcken noodles, relationship counseling will really help. You also need to let your girlfriend know how your feeling. It might seem scary, but it could be something that could build a bigger bond between the two of you. It might show her that you trust her and are trying to work through your problems.
2007-08-27 13:13:26 · answer #2 · answered by ptgirl24 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nothing in life is certain.
You have to take risks sometimes.
If this woman is the woman of yoru dreams, and you have covered yourself as much as you can legally, then go for it. It sounds like you two have discussed the 'ifs' as much as you possible could, you know who she is and what she is, you know what you want, you know what she wants.....short of G** smacking you on the back of the head and telling you to propose.....not sure what else you need!!!!
2007-08-27 13:08:10 · answer #3 · answered by Michael H 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to say this, but you need some sort of premarital counselling....you need to resolve some of those underlying issues before you marry anyone!
2007-08-27 13:06:17 · answer #4 · answered by L♥G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋