theres this guy that likes me.....i like him 2 but he thinks thathe can pull all the girls on the earth with no problem.....i want him 2 know that he cant get me that easily, i want him to work hard..but my question is..........how do u play hard to get??
2007-08-27 03:11:52 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i c that i left some details out...........you see this guy really really likes me. hes liked me for a whole year and just finally told me.........if he can hold on to liking me that long im sure he can hold on to me while i play hard 2 get. (p.s........im 2 young to be sleeping with him in bed.)
2007-08-27 03:21:20 · update #1
good choice, i would say that if he asks u out say no, and if he trys to hug u or something act like ur not intrested. the only problem with playing hard to get is that some guys will just give up cause they know there are other fish in the sea and if he is that cocky than he probably isn't gonna waste much time on a girl who doesn't want to go out with him or does and he doesn't know it.
2007-08-27 03:16:53 · answer #1 · answered by !~!GoTHPuNkChICk!~! 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Starting a relationship with game playing is a waste of your time and his. In this case it would also be something you have to keep up if you want to keep him, which will get very tiring. If he has an attitude that he can have whatever he wants, you might want to wait until he grows up before you have a relationship with him.
The best thing you can do, is to focus on your own life. Have other things going on besides him. Then when he wants to do something, you aren't always going to be available. Your being honest and he has to plan ahead to do things with you. You aren't a girl he can just call up at the spur of the moment and hang out with. Never be a guys back up plan.
2007-08-27 10:25:07 · answer #2 · answered by tnk3181979 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the funny part about this is he thinks he can get anyone and hes got you but u wanna try n teach him a lesson the best part is when u play hard to get and he leaves u in the dust and gets a girl who doesnt play hard to get. and u sit there cryin cause u wanted to play a game. well let me tell you guy do not like games, play a game with him and expect him to play with you. make him chase you and watch him go to a girl who he doesnt have to chase
2007-08-27 10:16:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
DON'T! If you really like this guy and he seems genuinely interested in you, don't play mind games with him. On the other hand, if you even remotely think he's a player, what would you really want with him anyway? Get real girl! Woman up, dammit!
2007-08-27 10:16:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Do alittle light flirting like smiling at him when you walk by and then kind of almost ignore him. Make it hard for him to have a moment for him to be able to approach you.
2007-08-27 10:18:09 · answer #5 · answered by Kourtney M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well actually, it's not "playing"
you don't have to be available all of the time, that's for sure.... especially if he thinks he's "all that"....
and don't call him.
a lot of women sit and wait by the telephone for a guy.... make productive use of your spare time, keep busy with a hobby or doing things with friends...
it's quite ok to show a man you like them, but for me, a man isn't my entire life... and i let them know that i'm fulfilled regardless of their presence...
because i am!!
2007-08-27 10:17:33 · answer #6 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to play games like that? If you play hard to get, then he may lose interest.
2007-08-27 10:15:05 · answer #7 · answered by Gypsy Girl 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
If he can get all the women he wants, why would he want to chase someone who plays games and pretends not to be interested in him? Dumb move.
2007-08-27 10:16:25 · answer #8 · answered by Princess Picalilly 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
By ignoring or avoidance of the person who is trying to score with you.
2007-08-27 10:14:59 · answer #9 · answered by WC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i can't stand girls who play hard to get....it gets old after a while! so if you want to be lonely for the rest of your life..keep doing it!
2007-08-27 10:16:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋