I apreciate your answers...because I feel so desperate... she told me ...."Its just sex.." I feel like I'm dying....because she accepts that situation and she knows that guy is a jerk and she has a future with me... god help me!!
2007-08-27 02:48:24 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes and you must not be very good in bed
2007-08-27 02:53:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Somewhat. Hard to explain, but she may have just been looking for the thrill that comes from it. She probably loves you to a degree, but a girl can not be TRULY in love with a man if she is willing to risk losing him to sleep with someone else. Love isn't that cut and dry- there are so many levels. If she cheated and just brushes it off like that, you should let her know that if she thinks she has a future with you, this CAN NOT happen again. True love is between two people- not some other jerk thrown in once in a while for variety!
2007-08-27 09:54:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anastasia 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dont see myself telling my boyfriend that i slept with someone else just because its just sex. I believe that when you love someone you cant go outside and look for more unless you are not telling the truth about your feelings. At the end of the day the desicion is yours but i think you really dont deserve her, if you feel that you are too good for her why dont you get yourself someone who will appreciate and love you unconditionally. If she feels that you dont satisfy her sexually why doesn't she communicate with you, probably you can do something to spice up your sexlife but anyway i think she was out of line to go and sleep with someone else and have a nerve to say its just sex. How would you trust someone who go over the board to sleep with someone else and claim to love you? to me that its not love. Honestly she's ruthless, how would she feel if you did the same? obviously she could have jumped to the sky, just because she's a woman we dont have to agree with what she has done, she's totally wrong. Get rid of her and find someone who will not cheat and say its just sex. I believe sex is something special and should be done by two people who love each other. Sorry! i dont think she loves you, just quit.
2007-08-27 10:36:25 · answer #3 · answered by Sapeta 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that women are emotional creatures, and I don't see how a woman could have sex with another guy while stringing a boy friend along, without getting totally messed up.
I would want total commitment, not left overs!
My advice would be to dump her and find someone who is devoted to you and leaves the other men alone.
2007-08-27 09:57:20 · answer #4 · answered by hugskisses4707 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude thats a messed up situation to be in because you're getting your feelings mixed up and hurt! You need to stop having sex with this girl already if she still loves her boyfriend! Its just wrong and even if you got with her, how can you ever trust her to faithful to you! She may end up running back to him like she has been. Remember, to her its just sex!!! That says it all right there, she doesnt feel nothing more you! Good luck man!
2007-08-27 09:53:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Anyone can do anything they put their mind into. Prostitutes can do anyone and anything and give all the money they make to their pimps because they claim to love him and only him.
If you feel this is the woman for you after this, then you have some serious soul searching to do. I hope you find yourself and get away from this user.
God helps those who help themselves!
2007-08-27 09:54:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think honestly that's degrading herself! if you truly love your boyfriend whether sex,money whatever it maybe it's just for your bf and him alone.why going around sharing what god made you to share one to all,sex is smthing cherishable and think that's a way of getting to know smone internally and intimately so plz put sm kinda positive advice in her head so it can manufacture in her brain and not seep out through her ear!if it continues definitely there's no future cuz she wants none!!
2007-08-27 10:07:52 · answer #7 · answered by mexcisha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women have needs too. "It's just sex" may mean that there was no emotional attachment for her. Why would you want a girl that will cheat on people anyway?? She doesn't sound very respectable.
2007-08-27 09:53:11 · answer #8 · answered by geminiqtpie22 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Men say it and do it all the time. So can women.
2007-08-27 09:53:23 · answer #9 · answered by Princess Picalilly 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just sex , i use to say that to, shes playing you,
2007-08-27 09:53:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋