2007-08-27 02:46:38 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you must really love this guy.............i have the same prob as you right now. my bf cheated on me 1 time, i cant get over that. Let alone 2 times.......my goodness i cant imagine the hurt your going through. We both need to get theese guys out of our lives becuz they are only hurting us. i can harldy sleep at night. feel free to email me if u wanna talk..........
2007-08-27 03:05:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Forgive him as many times as you can if you still love him and believe he can change.
It is very difficult for some people to change their ways of life. Some are womanisers, Alcoholics, Thieves, Lazy etc, etc. No matter how many times they say they will never do wrong they always repeat the same thing.
It might take long for your bf to stop cheating on you. He might come to you to ask for forgiviness on his knees crying and opromising never to cheat on you but will do so after some time. That's just how some human beings are.
If you love him forgive him 77 by 7 times coz this is not the last time he is cheating on you.
2007-08-27 03:01:19 · answer #2 · answered by Sombo Mummy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way to probably forgive him, is to leave him!
If you stay with him, you will always feel as if you cannot trust him and for very good reasons!
That lack of trust will probably supersede any other aspects of your relationship together and definitely impede any forgiveness from developing.
Let him go and soon enough, you will be able to forgive him.
Remember, fu*k me once, shame on you, fu*k me again, shame on me!
Do not give him a third opportunity!
Besides, I am sure that there have been more than only two occasions.
Those two are all that YOU know about!
2007-08-27 02:54:59 · answer #3 · answered by runninfool 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is easy to sit here in the comfort of my den and tell you that you are stupid for staying and trying to figure out how to forgive such an awful betrayal of your trust. It is easy for me to say that you should kick him to the curb REALLY REALLY HARD!!....however....
I know how hard it is to be where you are. Not being able to understand why he keeps doing this to you. Feeling inadequate and insecure?
I wont tell you to leave the man you love... that is something you have to decide to do all on your own IF that is what you decide. But, to answer the question... If you do in fact love this man.... sit him down and tell him how badly he has hurt you and your relationship. Explain to him how it makes you feel when you find out that he has shared with another woman all the things that are supposed to be just for the two of you. His reaction to you and the things that you will say to him will determine rather or not you can forgive him. That is the first step... if forgiveness is even possible, you should walk away from this conversation with some sense of relief.
2007-08-27 02:57:40 · answer #4 · answered by LdyScorpn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You never let people take advantage of you. I know that in your heart you want to forgive him because you love him. That is all that matters. You must forgive people in your heart but, in your brain you must fight for your rights. Go up to him and tell him it is over. If he asks you to come back just tell to loose you forever. If it is hard for you to play this game cheat on him. See what he feels about that. Make it as good as it gets. Because you need to be opened with your soul and show him that cheating is a piece of dirt that he won't know unless you give it back to him.
2007-08-27 02:56:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're right...it's a no brainer. He has cheated on you twice with the same MARRIED WOMAN and got her PREGNANT. It's obvious that he is a player. I mean he has a child and another one on the way. I am not sure why you have the desire to forgive him. But, you definitely should move on and break off the engagement.
2016-05-19 00:54:35 · answer #6 · answered by kaley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would recomend staying with a cheater, but if you stayed with him, you both need to sit down and think about what you could both do to make this relationship better. Notice each others feelings, try goin to church, and pick one day out of the week where yall spend the whole day together! Doing this things will help you grow to forgiving him because these things take time, he needs to earn your forgivness...well I hope this helps you...GOOD LUCK :)
2007-08-27 02:54:32 · answer #7 · answered by Tiffany S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its important to forgive people; we are all human and we all make mistakes and do things that are wrong, but you need to realize that he's going to do it again. You only know of twice that he's cheated on you, just think about whaty ou don't know. If you are fine with him cheating on you, that's your call, but don't expect it to stop.
2007-08-27 02:53:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You lose him he is no good. He is going to do it over and over. You do not have to live with that. Lose him and your life is going to be a lot better. I have had this problem and I was trying to stay in but it was so hard he cheated on me like 10 times and i had to give up it is not worth it. Do it before he makes things worse.
2007-08-27 02:53:16 · answer #9 · answered by Baby girl 101 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
omg dont forgive him,leave him!! u can do way better than that! if he can cheat on u twice,he obviously doesn't have much feelings for u.
2007-08-27 02:52:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Forgive...don't forget. You don't deserve to be cheated on. I'd leave him in the dust. He's not a nice, trustworthy person. Why torture yourself with someone that doesn't respect you??
2007-08-27 02:50:58 · answer #11 · answered by geminiqtpie22 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋